Reset Password
Reset Link Sent
Blogs > aliljaded > It's All Relevant |
D/s in 2D D/s in 2D “Go to the park and see the baby ducks.” Wait, what?? That’s a task? When I have much more important things to do why would He give me such a task? Because He is responsible for more than just the obvious. He has accepted the responsibility of caring for all of me and my spirit needs some TLC. In my line of work, we spend a lot of time talking about mindfulness. This practice helps when your mind is spiraling out of control. While there are many ways of accomplishing this, the basic premise is pulling you back into the present moment. There are two ways I experience it best; sensual experiences and moments of awe. Some of the ways it works for me are: -actively noticing what I see, smell, taste, hear touch. -allow me to play. When was the last time you went down the slide at the playground? Played a card game? -indulge in moments of awe. These are experienced by my senses and often with a bit of emotion. Baby animals, the way warm ceramic feels when I drink hot tea, watching the sun go down, symmetry in nature, the sensations of fresh sheets, etc. These are usually cost-free, but so seldom really noticed and intentionally completely experienced. This is where baby ducks come in. This isn’t a “my Master is the best in the whole world” kind of post. (Although for me He is.) Rather, I want to acknowledge that sometimes in long distance D/s it can be very difficult when a submissive’s spirit needs support. We often rely on physical comfort in person and without that option, creativity comes into play. 2D relationships require creativity and an INTENTIONAL focus on what you CAN do, rather than what you can’t. So I send Him pictures of the baby ducks and indulge in the experience by sitting in the grass to make a daisy chain crown. I will return to data analysis and deadlines soon. He won’t accept me failing. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
|||
|
interesting
| ||
5/5/2017 5:39 am |
Being trusted is more important than being being loved and a sense of purpose is more important than the task.
| ||
|
Being in an LD relationship I can definitely relate to this. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
|
Become a member to comment on this blog | ||
×
×