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aliljaded 53F
23957 posts
1/18/2018 1:57 pm
Structure Is.

Structure Is.

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Structure is knowing what to expect. It’s the security of concrete rules. Rules that are not only for days where I feel like being obedient, or he feels like enforcing. It’s his refusal the let an infraction slide despite my being tired, or distracted.

Structure is routine in the face of a turbulent life. It’s feeling his presence, even when he can’t be there. It’s a rule for what to do in case of X, knowing Y is non-negotiable, and that Z is only allowed when A, B, and C are complete. It’s finding peace because the burden of the mundane is managed.

Structure is consistency despite our moods. It’s pressing in when we’re feeling frustrated. It’s taking the next step despite sadness, because the rules are constant. It’s the firm knowledge that anger will not drive us apart because structure tethers us together.

Structure is the blinking beacon of a lighthouse in the storm. It’s visible through the fog of emotion, busy schedules, and uncertainty. Structure is the light that calls me back to my place at his feet.

pleasurewhore~


"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


Gowron 69M
3089 posts
1/19/2018 2:34 am

What you call structure is probably what I call routine. I need it to anchor me. Deviations are welcome, but not as a definitive departure from the beaten, comfortable track. They should be contained, with well defined beginning and end.


pandia__ 50F
3097 posts
1/18/2018 5:48 pm

Structure is just clarifying expectations. Love this!


aliljaded 53F
8847 posts
1/18/2018 2:00 pm

Structure is something I need, always.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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