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Softlysexy 58F
0 posts
5/1/2017 8:45 pm
Roller Coaster


The last few weeks have been one most curious roller coaster ride..

The guy that I started to chat with here, then to kik and finally enough trust gave my phone number to for texting.. yeah... then I didn't here from him for two weeks.. says he was out of town.. in the 21st century with 4g, though I saw him online, he could not make contact.. Yep, he's a keeper.

The other guy, chatting here to kik, met face to face.. another meeting planned.. He was very sweet and very forthright, made it clear that he was not looking for commitment and I was okay with that. A sexy new friend.. cancelled the second meeting because he wanted to pursue a relationship with someone else..

Hmmm at least he communicated instead of ghosting like other, other guy..

So then tonight on IM.. the sweet, sexy, romance of Hey you, you fat titted slut, how are you?" and the guys profile says he wants a classy sub lady.. Wow..

I know he is out there, that one last Dom.. the forever kind of guy.. that actually gets he doesn't have to be a bully.. that I can submit to out of trust and devotion..

I know it!

Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love. It will not lead you astray.
Rumi



Softlysexy 58F

5/1/2017 8:45 pm

He is!

Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love. It will not lead you astray.
Rumi


rosaenaluin 65F
10834 posts
5/2/2017 4:20 am

Aah, woman, i so recognise this behaviour....
not on here anymore.. i have made it clear that i know all the sick dirty tricks of their books...

But on FETLIFE.....

I hate it when some random guy makes presumptions about who and what i am... without ever have 1 conversation with me.....
i really really hate that.

I dont react anymore, just delete and block or the other way around.
too much trouble to react on that kind of nonsence.

They will never learn, they dont want to learn, they dont know HOW to listen, want to get their EGO boosted and a cheap fuck too, thats all.

Keep the faith alife, he is there, somewhere!
go out and about, meet people, make friends, and maybe... friends from friends know this great guy, of wich they think you might match.....
dont ever give up!

There are about 85% married losers here, the others are real fuck ups, and then there is some small, very small amount who are what they say they are!
Keep your focus on that!.

He is out there!


DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
5/2/2017 4:47 am

Best to you in your search, don't rush it.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Softlysexy 58F

5/2/2017 6:52 am

Wow! What amazing responses.. Thanks to you all so much for your words of support! You have reinforced my resolve and my belief that this will happen!


Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love. It will not lead you astray.
Rumi


Softlysexy 58F

5/2/2017 5:27 pm

Wishing you well too!

Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love. It will not lead you astray.
Rumi



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