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Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
5/26/2018 12:24 pm

It depends on what you want, the nature of the exchange and what else is going on in your life.
Swinger sex ought to be about mutual pleasure and anybody old enough to be doing it ought to know how - it should be an exchange based on respect.
A quick shag (probably) is just that.
A relationship is about more that the purely physical, but unless the physical is good, the relationship may not last.
Lastly, there is genuine love which should surpass all since it requires a genuine oneness from two people.


letseat3150 70M

5/26/2018 12:51 pm

I for one think you are right. Some people need a class. I like to take my time there is more to a woman the what is between her legs. It may take me some time but I will find my way and get between her legs. Face first lol


Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
5/26/2018 1:14 pm

Men are rabbits, women are cuddly little pussy cats.

There is a time and a place for every imaginable act of love and sex. But it's true, men are not nearly as intimate it seems, as women.
Who should teach us? Why, you, of course Let me know when to show up for my first lesson

“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”


cuzisaid 53F  
14988 posts
6/1/2018 7:01 pm

As mentioned by several, we learn affection from those who show and give it to us. Learn by example as it were.

Sure some are born or raised with more affection than others. Some people, guys especially are taught from a very young age NOT to touch girls sooooooooooooo how in the hell are they supposed to learn if we dont teach em? Porn sure the hell doesn't show em.

Yeah there are articles in magazines and websites that can give basics so in the past 10 years or so noone of any gender has any excuse not to have improved their lack of knowledge but even that only goes so far. You fine tune the basics you know to the person you're with and you do that by observing how they touch and treat you. Most people do touch others the way they either want to be touched(this is subconscious) or the way they learned by what they observed (sobs over the porn industry's lack of elegance).

Women most definitely take longer to heat up and boil over. to times longer than a guy does. Why would any guy know or think that unless told or shown, right?

I too, like you mentioned in the post, will take responsibility for making my partner a better partner for me....If my partner, as a rule, has a very different style than mine, I will, without stating Im doing so, lead by example what, how, where......pull back for a few minutes, lighter harder, just demonstrate different things AS we go along. If they dont catch on I will become verbal gently and try again. If they still refuse or are unable(some are....hang ups exist and take more than a loving partner to get over)then its only because they CAN NOT or they dont give a fuck and that is an answer and issue in itself.

Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character.
At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached.
May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black
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~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~



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