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TheGentleD0M 55M
2947 posts
2/21/2017 4:16 pm
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TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
2/21/2017 4:19 pm

Evolutionary!

The anthropological dialectic of the year!
--- The Breitbart News Network


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tgd


sublime2superior 44F
68 posts
2/21/2017 7:50 pm

the jungles though , were never meant to be quiet.


TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
2/22/2017 6:40 am

In general, a little less growling from the dinosaurs is a good thing.

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tgd


TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
2/22/2017 1:04 pm

    Quoting  :

One could write a Master's Thesis in response to your comment. I am going to be restrained in the brief scan here.

I've been weening myself off ALT for over a year. The easiest way to track that is to look at my blogging frequency. From early on I kept a file of every woman I've contacted here, so the statistics by now are truly screaming at me to make a change. I love writing, but even the blogosphere is a bit tainted. As one female blogger alluded to here: virtually everyone who blogs, who is single, is doing it as a backdoor way to find someone. Perhaps 80% of my posts are pure inspirational writing. This post (above) is one of those: a genuine experience I had that I wanted to write about. It even, it can be argued, paints me in a non-flattering light. But, still, as you blog, you hope ... and that hope isn't healthy. This same female once was startled by something I wrote which I thought was universally known. Obviously it isn't, so I will say it here: hope is an action. Actions have both consequences and their own inertial momentum. Returning and returning and returning is not without cost. (Yet, here I am.)

What brings me back is my sexuality, and my disappointment with the vanilla. As most females here now are masochistic toppers, the pickings are slim. But if one wants to find a "true" submissive, I know of nowhere else to look. I've tried eHarmony twice and both times my answers returned ZERO matches. Kinda funny.

Your "misery" concept could vector off to 100,000 words. Though I obviously agree, I won't elaborate. But I would enjoy reading you answer your own question. I do appreciate your comment, and sincerely express ...

Thanks for visiting.


tgd


TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
3/3/2017 2:36 am

    Quoting  :

I'm sure you see, as I do, the "blogging as backdoor to romantic pairing" phenomenon. I believe that is a pattern that only brings benefits to females. As your key turning point, how did you measure "the less it was returned to me" part? And, overarching this, why did you not anywhere mention sex or sexuality? Not condemning you in any way, these are simply two more curiousities. If you do not return to see this, or if you do not respond, good luck in your searches.

Thanks for visiting.


tgd


TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
3/3/2017 3:17 pm

    Quoting  :

The most humble thing I can say to your post is this: you are 100% seeing ALT as it is. The last few days I've been rolling a post around in my mind, and one of the simple statements in it is Pictures not sent really do mean something. Can't beat that for confirmation.

Secondly, the ALT populace of lonely women who probly were already in relationships is sadly, heartlessly and depressingly accurate. Again, well done.

One thing that keeps me coming back is that I am now on the opposite side of the probability curve. As I said earlier, I've kept a log of women I've had contact with. The number is very large. So, yes, on the one hand, that large a sample should teach me there is no chance here. But, on the other hand, randomness suggests that extreme run of failure simply can not sustain itself indefinitely. This theory does not lead to a a conscious decision to "roll the dice again tonight" login, but it is in the back of my mind. Your thoughts?

Thanks for visiting.


tgd



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