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likesmatureones 55M
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11/8/2017 5:05 am
Do straights treat the lifestyle differently than the lgbtg? Community?


In my opinion the straight community luvs to set up this great divide...

Your either vanilla...and if your on a site like this you must be trolling for sex\ a complete newbie\ an idiot or a perv.

Or your the real deal.....you got your flogger and you fly your kink flag...

But in the gay community it seems like kink isnt a biggie...its like they either roll kink into their everyday lives ( so doing kinky things like edging is no longer kink..its more of a gay thing).
Its like they arent big into labels and do what they enjoy.

The problem with being so relaxed is the gay community then tends to turn it up a bit when it comes to being kinky.

Go on any straight dating site and see if it even mentions kink...ok cupid sorta gets into it slightly with their additional question. But normally you wont find a kink referrence unless your on a kink site.

Go to alot of gay personal sites and you can click additional boxes for things your into...

So you may meet a nice guy and have no clue that he is kink friendly..his profile coukd be very nilla...yet on the gay site it isnt embarrassing to click on a box that says yeah..its no biggie..i want to be fisted.

And honestly should'nt kink be that laidback...there shouldnt be this great divide.

And who knows perhaps that lone box will help you to meet a nice guy..

I just know you broach certain topics with women ( like cbt) and alot freak out...broach that topic with a gay man and its no big deal...probably enjoys doing it

likesmatureones 55M

11/8/2017 5:06 am


DaytonareaMan 71M

11/8/2017 6:38 am

I agree with taximan above, this BDSM lifestyle depends on a person's desire for kinky sexual gratification. It has nothing to do with whether a person is straight or gay.



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