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likesmatureones 55M
0 posts
3/11/2018 8:10 am
Why do people stay in toxic relationship s?


Well its been a week since the breakup.....and im honestly feeling good about it.

I realised that we were going around in circles\ having the same arguments\ she keep bringing up the same points.....

And i felt like this wasnt going to change...i offered to change, but it kept drifting back to the same old bs.

I felt like i didnt need someone saving up ammo to just blast me multiple times in an email.....

Who know...maybe that is why im not good with women..i always feel like the guy has to jump through hoops and prove himself worthy...

Guys are simpler and more direct...

Anyway im glad i broke it off... It made my weekend less stress free

likesmatureones 55M

3/11/2018 8:10 am


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
3/11/2018 8:29 am

Amen. I do find that toxic relationships can make us behave in the way we usually wouldn’t nor would want to. It can be better for all parties when we recognise it’s time to get out...


drmgirl622 68F  
25884 posts
3/11/2018 8:40 am

We human beings are creatures of habit......unfortunately taking us back to the same habits.


InderioMinx 54F  
19798 posts
3/11/2018 9:31 am

Such a loaded question today Leo, and I could write a lengthy reply, but I'll just leave a couple brief thoughts. They may not really realize it. It does take time to recognize that ugly cycle. Another things is, they do not realize the person they have become in the relationship is not good or healthy. And quite frankly, for some it just may be easier to stay. It is an *ugly* they know and are comfortable with.

I guess it is as varied as people out there, but that is at least a good lesson I learned once. I was just not a good version of myself when with/interacting with a particular person. Done and done.

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short



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