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lastguymn 56M

5/28/2015 10:56 pm

Another assumption that gets made (by both women and men) is that experience in successfully bringing other partners to orgasm automatically translates to the current situation. Just as no two women look alike, no two women cum alike either, and for men, reaching into the "old bag of tricks" doesn't always prove fruitful, and I think guys sometimes blame their partners when their full repertoire is exhausted with no orgasm to show for it.

Great sexual relationships just don't happen spontaneously...no matter how awesome a lover you might be, with every partner there's a learning curve. Shame you ladies don't come with owner's manuals to make the process easier.


~LastGuy

"It's great to be here. It's great to be anywhere." -- Keith Richards

"There are many spokes on the wheel of life. First, we're here to explore new possibilities." -- Ray Charles


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
5/29/2015 1:22 am

Wow Katie, what a post to wake up to

Well said. This is a little issue of mine I was known to have faked it to make the experience more enjoyable for my partner (so that they wouldn't feel inadequate) and so that there wouldn't be so much pressure on me. I know it was wrong but it was just easier. What it meant though was that I NEVER reached a climax . Faking went totally against who I am as a person but I guess I am just hard to crack (with another person that is). I still am and it certainly doesn't happen every time but I ensure my Dom that it really isn't that important (and I certainly don't fake it anymore). I may be liberated and up for most things but perhaps I am still learning (and need to let go even more ).


Doc_Sonar 66M
24588 posts
5/29/2015 5:36 am

Yes.

Nuff said...
xx

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


Doc_Sonar 66M
24588 posts
5/29/2015 5:41 am

PS
nuff said except, you said you'd get around tot this...

Whose Job is it to Make You Feel Good

Wellfucking done.
RTSp
xx

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


benoite 104F
6238 posts
5/29/2015 3:04 pm

Great post!
I couLdn't agree more!
B


Everything in the world is about sex, except sex, sex is about power. - Oscar Wilde



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