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Yes. Bless you, yourSoftness... xoxos Doc_Sonar I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar Breathe Deeply~ Peace
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*Man-Hugzzz* Doc_Sonar I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar Breathe Deeply~ Peace
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I think you're a wise fucker... Doc_Sonar I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar Breathe Deeply~ Peace
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I find you totally acceptable Doc_Sonar I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar Breathe Deeply~ Peace
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Yes, I'm with you n all of what you wrote and your sharing warms us. Well done. The "It-Must-Be-Because-Of-Me' Exorcisms/Un_Programming/Learning, ongoing. That's all...already been enough good n' wise shit said... BD dear... YT P Doc_Sonar I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar Breathe Deeply~ Peace
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Ahh....see, we can SAY we accept things...but it isn't until we believe we accept them that transformation is lasting. And nobody can give you belief...you have to determine what you believe first....no matter what anybody says. When I went through therapy years ago for answers about why I was always felt shamed about everything it seemed. ..she pointed me toward to the five stages of grief. Her council was it is okay --healthy even -- to grieve for ourselves, our lost innocence, our betrayed trusts....and it's okay to be angry, to deny, to negotiate...to be depressed...and then accept. And move on. Always move forward. Reliving the grief over and over was my way of not accepting. Until I went through the whole process and BELIEVED in the process and what I was telling myself..until I felt it.... it didn't work. It's just words. And to be honest....even now, I fight the grief. But I'm also way older than you and so very tired of being someone elses victim. Fuck you. I am NOT letting you win. Um...turns pink..sorry.....touchy subject for me but I do hope you got what I was trying to say.....
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Ahh....see, we can SAY we accept things...but it isn't until we believe we accept them that transformation is lasting. And nobody can give you belief...you have to determine what you believe first....no matter what anybody says. When I went through therapy years ago for answers about why I was always felt shamed about everything it seemed. ..she pointed me toward to the five stages of grief. Her council was it is okay --healthy even -- to grieve for ourselves, our lost innocence, our betrayed trusts....and it's okay to be angry, to deny, to negotiate...to be depressed...and then accept. And move on. Always move forward. Reliving the grief over and over was my way of not accepting. Until I went through the whole process and BELIEVED in the process and what I was telling myself..until I felt it.... it didn't work. It's just words. And to be honest....even now, I fight the grief. But I'm also way older than you and so very tired of being someone elses victim. Fuck you. I am NOT letting you win. Um...turns pink..sorry.....touchy subject for me but I do hope you got what I was trying to say.....
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Ahh....see, we can SAY we accept things...but it isn't until we believe we accept them that transformation is lasting. And nobody can give you belief...you have to determine what you believe first....no matter what anybody says. When I went through therapy years ago for answers about why I was always felt shamed about everything it seemed. ..she pointed me toward to the five stages of grief. Her council was it is okay --healthy even -- to grieve for ourselves, our lost innocence, our betrayed trusts....and it's okay to be angry, to deny, to negotiate...to be depressed...and then accept. And move on. Always move forward. Reliving the grief over and over was my way of not accepting. Until I went through the whole process and BELIEVED in the process and what I was telling myself..until I felt it.... it didn't work. It's just words. And to be honest....even now, I fight the grief. But I'm also way older than you and so very tired of being someone elses victim. Fuck you. I am NOT letting you win. Um...turns pink..sorry.....touchy subject for me but I do hope you got what I was trying to say..... Ty sophi RTYO BD~ P xoxos Doc_Sonar I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar Breathe Deeply~ Peace
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And until we can accept ourselves - flaws and all - how can we expect acceptance from anyone else? xoxos Doc_Sonar I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar Breathe Deeply~ Peace
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