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Raven_GB 63M
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3/25/2017 4:50 am

There should come a moment of revelation in everybody's life when it dawns that the only permission that you need is your own. This is not to say that one can be careless with the love and needs of others, of course. However, without being overly indulgent, we must recognise that to stifle our own needs, drives and desires is not an act of selflessness, but one of stupidity. Carpe diem should be the motto to live by, whenever possible. Life can be all too fleeting.


likesmatureones 55M

3/25/2017 8:09 am

blowing off the dust of my psychology degree ( well that is if I ever finished college)..lol
have a sit on the couch my dear...( and please try not to get angry or punch me through the computer screen..just giving my honest opinion on what is going on here

You have stated before that your not a "toucher.. you don't enjoy foreplay and would rather just get on to the sex part".... you don't like messy/unclean people...you don't sleep around for fear of catching something..
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You don't like clutter/you don't want conflict/you want things nice and orderly in your life...your basically the apple polisher in the classroom as a kid/ you take pride in your job and excel at it/ You want to please the authority figure and get their love/attention.

and then a nice guy waltzes in and just wants to spoon.?

Probably sticker shocked the fuck out of your world.

I'm gonna give a random guess and say that your afraid of being hurt

( well come on dog any troll on here could have said that .. I thought you said you were the perceptive one??? Give us something deep mother fucker...drop some knowledge on us!)

Okay I'll elaborate...
I think you deliberately isolate yourself and only engage when you can control the situation.
You've stated previously that you work for various people yet chose who you work for. ( your the boss yet work for others)
Your a strong woman that wants to lose control ..yet you want to dictate this environment ( whether this is to a Dom or your work environment).
You said that you worked for this Doctor woman that controlled order in the household...yet you knew your job/did it well and yet this woman still berated you? She called you fat etc.

You mentioned that the newbies were lazy and didn't want to work/didn't have that work ethic and you found yourself telling the Doctor about this..
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It really reminds me of the girl in class that always got excellent grades/sat up straight in class/was glued to the teacher and tattled on the other children when they misbehaved.
( hence the whole giving up control to the authority figure ( teacher) yet still trying to exert her own brand of control over the environment ( the classroom/ the other kids by telling on them)

NOONE would stay with that employers( Doctor) unless
1. they had to ( didn't have any other job prospects/ no money etc)
2. or there was something mentally/emotionally/psychology they were getting from this environment..( no matter even if it was bad for them)

I'm guessing it was that fatherly/motherly/authority figure that apple polishers normally luv to please.

So now you find yourself in a new environment and your still trying to be in control ( getting up/going to the bathroom) instead of just enjoying yourself.
That your liking the spooning but are doubting this desire.

Your not use to a guy being "nice" and your probably looking for that controlling mechanism. The guy that say spoons so he can get into your pants..
Your probably just waiting for this guy to do or say something stupid ( no matter how minor) so you can break it off and get back into your safe environment.

Now this is just a guess as to what your feeling. But if I even 10 percent correct ( and I'm guessing I'm balls on 85 percent accurate or better).

Then perhaps a better way to look at this situation is to see spooning/him being nice to you as a form of control. Think of this as his way of transforming you. Turning you away from the world you knew and opening it up to one where you deserve to be treated well/loved and held.

Just a thought...I'm not a professional...just a clever boy that is good at putting pieces together..



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