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We are a couple living together in a FLR. She is a very loving strong person that loves control of her man.

Let’s get started with the basics.
Posted:Apr 19, 2018 8:49 am
Last Updated:Apr 20, 2018 2:48 pm
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I always hope at some point those that want this type of relationship will start reading what I write. I read about what submissive men want. I read about the relationship they find themselves in. I hear all the time is ‘I wish I had what you have’ or something like that. If you are still reading this, then just maybe you are of those men. Do not let fear guide you. Fear will always defeat success. One human trait is recognition for who we are and the worth of what we contribute. When you need to give everything, want nothing in return, you are a candidate for this type of relationship. Your partner must realize the worth of this commitment. If your partner wants to take advantage of this commitment you are on your way.
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I see a change in my Mistress’s attitude.
Posted:Feb 23, 2018 2:15 pm
Last Updated:May 26, 2018 8:25 pm
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Up until now she has never let any know that I am locked up in a chastity device, nor she has control over me. I got the feeling that it was part of her private life that she would not share. Now that she made up her mind to change our relationship she is becoming more open about us to other people. It seems she is becoming proud to own a slave. Proud to have total control over me. Now she is making little hints to casual people she has me under control and loves it. I now wonder if this is normal when a woman takes more control over her partner. No do not get me wrong, I do love the fact she is becoming more open to people that she interacts with in this small town.
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This journey is going to be a long one.
Posted:Feb 19, 2018 6:15 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2018 8:25 pm
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As I approach two months of denial I now see how so many of you that go this long feel. Sure, we all beg for release, but two days ago she let me out for sex. What was funny is she climax just as I was in her all the way. I never even got close to an orgasm, hell hardly had time to pre-cum and she was done with me. It was at that point I pleaded with her to let me continue for more. As she pushed me off her, she said “I am done, you go lock up now!”. At that point it was useless to beg anymore. I knew the paddle would come out next, she was not kidding around. I think it was the first time in this situation she was very stern. Yesterday she asked me how I felt about how she handled me the night before. To respond begging for release was one avenue, but instead I told her the truth. It was like making me stand still to have my cock and balls flogged very hard. That feeling you know it is going to be very painful, and you do not want to take it anymore. She just laughed and said “You may not make it until July bitch! So maybe we need to go well past six months!”. At that point I shut up.
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February has arrived but a long way to July.
Posted:Feb 1, 2018 5:15 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2018 8:25 pm
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My Mistress has only let me have intercourse with her once in January, and of course no orgasms to be had. It seems every day she reminds me I will not get relief until July. She had me get her off ten times last month, hope I have more interaction this month. I now see that past a month with out an orgasm it doesn’t take much at all to leak cum or for that matter pre-cum. By the time I get to the end of this month I am sure just looking at a nude woman will make me go nuts.
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An update to what is going on now.
Posted:Jan 22, 2018 1:20 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2018 8:25 pm
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Like most of us in this type of relationship, the dom/domme will say one thing yet do some thing different as it progresses. More than once in the heat of sex she would let me have an orgasm just because she wanted it. In the last few months I kept asking for longer periods of denial. Ok so for Christmas I got my wish. In the back of my mind I was sure she would have me wait for three weeks. This whole month she as reassured me I will not have an orgasm until June of this year. Last night she let me out for intercourse, I thought ok this is when I will get my first orgasm this year. OH, hell no, not even close. She numbed me up, got me hard, put a condom on me and told me to get her off. The second she had an orgasm, she pushed me off the bed, told me to lock up. After that she told me well not bad, but you will not get much of that this year. I really wanted to ask “Not much of what? That was not sex for me!”. But of course, I did not go there, I do at some point want to cum.
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A letter to my Mistress.
Posted:Jan 12, 2018 5:50 am
Last Updated:Jan 16, 2018 7:37 am
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Thank You so much for last night! You are so beautiful just looking in to your eyes melts my heart. Thank You so much for taking control of me, and using orgasm denial. I can not tell you how disappointed I get when I can’t get an erection to please you. I do know that denial solves this problem over time. In a way it is not fair, you want more, and I can’t perform. Our sex life as become more about how to please each other over wham-bang we are done. Sure, I love to orgasm, but as I have told you pleasing you is so important. Those times you want to drive my crazy by teasing me, the longer I go with out an orgasm the more intense it becomes. More to the point the more you tease me the more I want an orgasm. On the other hand, I not wanting to orgasm, so I can become erect for you is part of this battle. I want to be punished for the simple fact that I am trying to get you to let me orgasm and take away my ability to get an erection for you. It is an act of tough love you portray that enables me to feel your love. I hope you can continue to find away using denial, not letting me orgasm the next few months. You see because I want it so bad, because you love using your hard cock, all along being denied release gives me the satisfaction I can give you so much more.
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A great start to the new year.
Posted:Jan 7, 2018 4:20 am
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2018 4:22 am
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I am happy to report my Mistress has not let me have sex, edged me (which I like), and has reinforced the fact that I will not have intercourse as much this year as in the last three months. It looks like I will not orgasm for some time. She has set more stringent rules, but I have not challenged her yet. She admitted she gets turned on by giving me corporal punishment. I am glad she does yet on the other hand she always has taken me to my outer limits of pain. For her it is a good thing she loves receiving oral sex, but then she loves sex. As of yesterday in the last week she has got off four times, me zero.
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Glad to see 2017 in the rear-view mirror.
Posted:Dec 31, 2017 6:31 am
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2017 7:06 am
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Not that 2017 was a bad year, and my relationship with my Mistress improved, 2018 looks like it will be amazing. I have been reassured that our relationship will move to a typical BDSM relationship. I have enjoyed the FLR we live up until now. I really do hope she enjoys taking us to the next level. Not sure how I will do with out an orgasm for months at a time, but no matter I will learn to deal with it.
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A gift I did not see coming.
Posted:Dec 25, 2017 8:35 pm
Last Updated:Dec 26, 2017 8:06 am
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After two years of a FLR, for Christmas my Mistress informed me she is taking us up a notch or two. It has been three weeks from my last orgasm. She told me that maybe for my birthday in March I will get to have an orgasm. She is finding a lover this summer, once that happens my days of having intercourse are going to be a few times a year. I have now for some time wanted her to make me her slave, use me. I now have the best gift she could of every given me.
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Back to posting on here after a year.
Posted:Dec 22, 2017 6:42 am
Last Updated:Dec 22, 2017 5:43 pm
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I have not blogged now for a year. I lost interest and more over not sure how many followed this blog. Once again, I will post about how our life style works.
It was ago I asked her to take charge. I related to our relationship as a Female Led Relationship. This is way to deribe the life style we live. Of course, the first thing she did was put me into a chastity device. Over the last she only lets me out when she wants intercourse. Over the last year she has increased the time between my orgasms. She started out at once a week, now lucky to be allowed an orgasm once a month ( 6 weeks is now normal). After a year she started to ruin all my orgasms, and now doesn’t want me to enjoy sex any more than necessary. She has found this works the best, keeping me on edge all time. I have asked her to take our relationship up a notch. Much like when I asked her to take control, she jumped at the chance. Just must see how this works out.
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