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We are a couple living together in a FLR. She is a very loving strong person that loves control of her man.

For all you female dominate females that use chastity.
Posted:Jan 29, 2017 5:02 pm
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2017 7:16 am
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One problem of a chastity device that does really work seems to cost a bit more. If you have a male that seems to fight it, finds ways to get out, and just spends time finding ways to edge himself, get a device like she put me in. I am very impressed of the craftsman’s ship in this device and if you want to know more just leave a commit. I now will not be able to touch her cock. I have always had a problem with self-satisfaction but now that came to an end period.
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A chastity upgrade is now a reality.
Posted:Jan 28, 2017 4:33 pm
Last Updated:Jan 28, 2017 4:36 pm
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After giving this a lot of thought I was not looking forward to this upgrade. I will recommend a Holy Trainer V2 for the first-time long term wear. After over a year of wearing a Holy Trainer V2 it is very comfortable. One thing about it is by placing it in hot water you can adjust the way it fits. This new one is all steel, and it is a must to have the right fit if it is for long term wear. We will see now how I like the new one and how comfortable it will be.
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What she wants me to have a Prince Albert?
Posted:Jan 16, 2017 9:19 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2017 12:6 am
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I have not wanted to go here at all but now Mistress is thinking hard about getting a Prince Albert installed. I have never been around a man that has one and would like to know more from some one that has one. This has come about because of me cheating a chastity device and the piercing would stop that. There is just something about putting a steel ring in the end of her cock.
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Why a new chastity device is needed after a year?
Posted:Jan 10, 2017 8:57 pm
Last Updated:Jan 12, 2017 1:51 pm
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I have not talked about why I ordered a new chastity device after a year of wearing a Holy Trainer V2 (Pictured in profile). A month ago, I got to the point of feeling guilty about being able to cheat my chastity device. I have wanted an all steel device for some time for a couple of reasons. I started to talk to Mistress about ordering a new one and of course she had to know why. The first thing I talked about was the hassle of keeping the Holy Trainer clean. It was not long before we had the discussion about security. Once she learned that I could slip my cock out the back of the one I wear now, she was not happy to say the least.

It is that level of trust for her, really love to edge myself, hell just to get a hard on. I have not masturbated now for over a year. The rule was not to touch my cock at all.
When we started this life style she was generous about letting me out for sex and having an orgasm. As time went on she became strict about the time I was locked up only to find out I was getting out to edge.
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What a year it has been for me. I must say I live in heaven.
Posted:Jan 3, 2017 5:17 pm
Last Updated:Jan 10, 2017 8:35 pm
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It was a year ago, my Mistress began the use of chastity to change a behavior in me. I loved to masturbate to the point I was not pleasing her in bed. The change took place a long with a new-found relationship between us. It was not long before she found her power over me was delicious. Within the first month she found that orgasm denial effected the way I not only treated her, but my ability to perform sexually. The first few months she was letting me orgasm twice a month, but she would use me once a week and her appetite for sex increased.

By the time, we lived this life style six months, she took more control. She found that corporal punishment all so influenced my overall attitude. Once she had the tools to change behavior, now she found the need to train me, to shape me in to the man she wanted to be with.

It is true the more you live life the better life is. My goal was to be the lover, mate she dreamed of wanting in her life. Now she does use the control to adjust what her needs are at the time. She learned the power of using the technique of ruining my orgasms. This gives her the satisfaction of me climaxing in her, yet I do not get enjoyment from the orgasm. This is a form of denial she really likes. The level of need for sex remains very high all the time. It reinforces all the aspects of orgasm denial. No longer am I totally satisfied from having sex up tell she wants me to. Now she has one more tool to use keeping my attitude and behavior in check.

Now I look forward to having intercourse. I make sure not to misbehave in hopes just to get out of chastity. I really miss having an erection and it has replaced need for an orgasm. Not that I do not want to orgasm I do. I now do all I can to make every day special, and those days that are special I might get to have a full orgasm. The part of this that makes it work is when she tells me if I do A then I get B. She told me on special occasions I will be allowed ecstasy, and now it is amazing when she lets me enjoy sex to the fullest. As it is now I am allowed a ruined orgasm once in six weeks. I will be allowed a full orgasm a few times a year.
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Do all Female Led Relationships follow the same progression?
Posted:Oct 13, 2016 7:50 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2017 12:6 am
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This is not the first time I have been in this type of relationship. I can see after getting to know more people living in a form of BDSM they all seem to be different (but we all are). When two people change the style of a bond between them each one has a different idea what they want. It never seems long before there is compromise but all relationships do. It is a widely held option the dominate would shape the relationship. One thing that did happen was we moved from a very loving caring relationship to her taking control of my man hood. At first that was all she wanted to do, was control my relief from sexual activity.
I of course wanted her to be very dominate. In the beginning we set rules to be followed and what would happen if I did not. So from the beginning it would be more of what I wanted than her. What happened was she enjoyed the new found benefits of the effect of chastity. The longer I went without the more control she had. Along with a little corporal punishment she changed my behavior.
As our sex life changed there were things she liked a lot and things she is missing. As our relationship grows there are things she will never change and things she wants. One thing she will never do is give up control. The use of chastity will be kept in place. The level of my submission will be in her control. She now is about ready improve her sex life with a second submissive for sex. I have wanted her to consider a second man in her life if nothing else but for sexual pleaser. One thing is for sure to keep my behavior and attitude in check orgasm denial works very well with me. Now she can have the best of both worlds.
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A change for the better or at least she is enjoying it.
Posted:Oct 4, 2016 7:26 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2017 12:6 am
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As most of you that follow me know Mistress has let me get relief just about twice a month for first 8 months we lived this life style. I for some reason started to reflect on how I felt living this life style. The very first thing I realized was orgasm denial works very well but why. It is the fact I want sexual relief all the time. When she lets me have relief the next few days my desirer diminishes and all that goes with that. If the fact is my needs control behavior and attitude, then why would she ever let me have relief? One thing that I learned is just because I do orgasm the relief is short lived. Most of the time it is the very next morning I want sex all the more.
My Mistress just over a month ago decided to not let me have any more enjoyment from sexual activity. So when she has intercourse she takes actions to insure I do not enjoy it nor orgasm. After a month went by she felt a reward would give me incentive to continue good behavior. Just like always she let me out of chastity, sprayed my cock with a numbing agent. We went to bed and just like all the other times the foreplay started. Once it got to the part she was enjoying intercourse she asked if I could feel anything at all. Of course I cannot being numb in fact I cannot tell if I am in her and have to check that I am. She then let me orgasm and I must say I had to work at it. I could feel the semen leave my balls, so had the feeling I did. The first thing I noticed was my semen coming out of her. Of course she by this time was completely satisfied and the secession was over. After she locked me back up she asked if I really enjoyed my orgasm. What orgasm was all I was thinking and told her no I did not get any relief. All she had to say was well maybe next time you will get to.
Now only a few days later she will in a very loving way tell me it was too bad I didn’t enjoy my orgasm but if I just behave keep a good attitude I might next time (then chuckles).
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Part Three of “Inside of a Female Led Relationship.”
Posted:Sep 12, 2016 4:22 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2017 12:6 am
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There is an aspect to the male’s sexual needs that he will have to deal with. I have never read anything about this factor yet it is a part of this you need to know. If a chastity device is used on the male for long periods of time to stop him from orgasm or for that matter sexual relief, then here is what happens. You begin to want or need some sexual interaction all the more. Now the only form of interaction is when she teases you or has you play with her. Because of the heighten sex drive from denial you want interaction all the time. It takes a lot of time by her to work with you at this new level of expectation. If your partner doesn’t have the time or not willing to give you that extra time you want, then frustration sets in. I myself would act out or break a rule to get her to react. My mistress has a lot on her plate at this time in her life. There those times when life gets in the way. Never the less you sex drive is off the charts. I have had men living the same type relationship tell me their mistress just lost her desire to continue on. Only to find out she could not take the amount of time he wanted her to. This type of relationship is work for both parties involved. It is one thing to use denial for sex play, it is something else to live with denial every day all day long. I tell men wanting this type of relationship with their wives if they do not have a very sexual active relationship now then maybe this is not for them. I must ask how you can be denied something you do not have?
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Part Two "Inside of a Female Led Relationship."
Posted:Sep 12, 2016 3:53 am
Last Updated:Sep 12, 2016 4:21 am
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Some will say that this type of relationship is doomed to fail. The few posts that claim it will turn out to be a disaster are not submissive men. For anyone to understand how this type of a relationship works, they must understand a submissive type personality. In order for the relationship to last long term the man has to have the capability to deal with frustration of different types. Yes of course there will be sexual frustration. That is the basis of her control over her man. Another type of frustration is born from her changing the rules, demands, and expectations. The man must have the ability to adjust his attitude and keep in mind the objective. We all change our minds about our needs, wants and desirers. There are times she will want all of your attention yet times she would rather put you in a cage so she is left alone.
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