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Connecticut
Posted:Dec 13, 2017 2:40 pm
Last Updated:Mar 9, 2018 1:23 pm
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I live in COnnecticut and find many women who believe they are into D/s but few brave enough to admit it and meet! Am I alone in this or are others out there finding the same thing in my area of New Haven County.

Most seem to be looking for more than fun, they want long term relationships, I just am not into going that long. I believe in meeting females subs and letting them choose who they wish to serve and when.

So, anyway I am a 61 year old white make, healthy and clean and discreet, I Like being in control and giving spankings and using toys and cuffs, so both get of and have a good time. So if interested and real in my area I would like to hear from you!
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Happy Holidays KInksters !
Posted:Dec 23, 2023 8:19 am
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 3:38 pm
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December 23rd is upon us and Christmas is in two days. As the year is coming to an end soon enough, 2024 will be begin.
I want to wish all A Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year !

As the year ends and a new begins shortly, I have now been a widower since 2021 and alone since I moved to Westborough, Mass here in March of 2022.

I have not met anyone as of yet, and hope at some pointy I shall. Time will tell, but, if I don't I shall survive.

The hardest part of being a widower is the loneliness and lack of female companionship and the lack of someone to be with spank and make laugh.

I will keep trying and looking though, I am not an extrovert type person, and it isn't easy. I was married for 28 years and the dating scene is not the same for me, I will be 68 soon enough.

Anyway, I wanted to Wish all a Very Happy Holiday Season !
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Just abrief hello
Posted:Feb 9, 2023 4:56 am
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 3:38 pm
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Hello to all1
I have been on ALt.com many years and seen many come and go. I have also seen Alt now reduced to a very few chat rooms and wonder is ALt.com dying?

Anyway, I am a 67 yo male, d&d free, healthy, a widower, and living in Westboro, Mass here. I moved here last March and I am finding it boring here, especially since i am a single.
I was hoping to find me some female companionship and someone to play with FWBs, here. I miss spanking women, and cuddling and spooning afterwards, I miss having conversations with like minded people who want fun and have some kinky needs.
But, I do not wnat to seem desperate or needy myself, so people think I am weak.
I just want to make friends in my area and go from there.

If Interested in meeting, having a drink or if you know a good munch to attend, let me know.
Thanks,
OlderDom2016 is me,
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Happy Holidays to ALL
Posted:Dec 18, 2022 1:43 am
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 3:38 pm
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Happy Holidays to all who celevrate the Christmas Season in anyway and I want to wish all a Happy New Year coming up also.

As to me I am now 66 yo. and a widower trying to start ove rin a new town and state. I am now in Westborough. Ma. where i bought a condo back in March of 2022.

I look to meet female kinksters and make friends here in my area now. I do not know any of the area or anyone in it really except for my fellow condo owners I see as I or they come and go here.

I would love to meet a submissive woman who knows what she likes and wants a man to DOm her or be with her for kink and companionship if i can find one.

I shall be home alone this X-mas, so if any ladies are alone also maybe we can meet and make one another smile ove rthe holidays, the choic eis yours ladies.

Meantime i shall be on Alt or in AdultFriendFinder or around if interested. I am on Facebook and around. I have WhatsApp also.
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Clear communication In D/s and BDSM
Posted:Apr 20, 2021 6:03 am
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 3:38 pm
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I have listened to some people, looking for partners in the Bdsm/ D/s World online and in Real life. I find that the hardest part of it all is that people tend not to communicate well with one another. Some just come to the lifestyle looking for just sex and to fulfill their kinks and move on.
If you want a relationship in BDSM or D/s or both, fine, but do yourself a favor and learn to listen to who your with. Many just give orders or make demands, if you listen to your partner, you would know what they like and what turns them on and what makes them like or want to be with you.
Clear communication is not just telling your side, it's listening to the other side, who is your partner, too. So sit down if your having trouble, openly talk and don't be afraid to say how you feel about anything. Honesty, straight forwardness. compassion, caring and in the end, compromise goes a long way folks.
When I say compassion I mean have some empathy for your partner, care about what they want, and listen honestly and with full attention.
If you Don't listen and openly communicate you may not last in a relationship, whether it is in this lifestyle or vanilla, if you get the drift ok.
What we all want is someone we can respect and who respects us in return, someone we can get along with, grow with and in the end have something lasting, if you ask me.
Before you jump into any relationship, look at yourself, know thyself first, know your own kinks, likes, desires and then also know what your hard limits are and what you hate too. Be able to convey and talk about it all openly with someone you know or like a lot and are attracted to, be honest. For if you hide something, lie about yourself or don't convey something clearly, you will lose out. So remember open communication is not just shouting what you like out at someone, it is also listening in return and compromising to a point of both sides being satisfied in the end.
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Clear Communication
Posted:Apr 14, 2021 4:35 am
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 3:38 pm
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Clear communication In D/s and BDSM
I have listened to some people, looking for partners in the Bdsm/ D/s World online and in Real life. I find that the hardest part of it all is that people tend not to communicate well with one another. Some just come to the lifestyle looking for just sex and to fulfill their kinks and move on.
If you want a relationship in BDSM or D/s or both, fine, but do yourself a favor and learn to listen to who your with. Many just give orders or make demands, if you listen to your partner, you would know what they like and what turns them on and what makes them like or want to be with you.
Clear communication is not just telling your side, it's listening to the other side, who is your partner, too. So sit down if your having trouble, openly talk and don't be afraid to say how you feel about anything. Honesty, straight forwardness. compassion, caring and in the end, compromise goes a long way folks.
When I say compassion I mean have some empathy for your partner, care about what they want, and listen honestly and with full attention.
If you Don't listen and openly communicate you may not last in a relationship, whether it is in this lifestyle or vanilla, if you get the drift ok.
What we all want is someone we can respect and who respects us in return, someone we can get along with, grow with and in the end have something lasting, if you ask me.
Before you jump into any relationship, look at yourself, know thyself first, know your own kinks, likes, desires and then also know what your hard limits are and what you hate too. Be able to convey and talk about it all openly with someone you know or like a lot and are attracted to, be honest. For if you hide something, lie about yourself or don't convey something clearly, you will lose out. So remember open communication is not just shouting what you like out at someone, it is also listening in return and compromising to a point of both sides being satisfied in the end.
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What Do I seek?
Posted:Apr 14, 2021 4:33 am
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 3:38 pm
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Looking for a fun, sexually active woman, who wants a man, still active. I am retired. Not looking for Long Term relationships. Looking for friends with benefits on the side.For pure fun and satisfaction for both involved. I don't like phonies, or players, I prefer real. I have skype, and discord also. I love online chatting.
What do I like to do I have been asked, Music, writing,movies, and I like hiking too! I do Second Life and I do Discord chats. Meetings can be arranged if both us want it. Discretion is a must for both sides
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ALtcom vs, Reality/ Right or Wrong
Posted:Mar 9, 2018 1:23 pm
Last Updated:Mar 13, 2018 4:34 pm
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Reality in the world is not sex 24/7 folks! In my experience in life, people don't just meet and drop their clothes and fuck each other silly, or is there a universe I don't know about? Usually to get to the point of sex is ritual of romancing, dancing, prancing and getting juices flowing, or am I wrong?

In ALT.com it seems we have nude photos and videos and how many of them are real? Let's talk facts, how are the odds of you or I meeting someone on ALT.com for real sex in person? 100 to 1 maybe, if your a lucky guy or gal, I think.

How do you overcome these odds, I have no idea, but it seems to me many get led on, played with and teased is all, sadly it is true.

Humans need sex and age, height, weight doesn't matter, the sex drive does and it needs met and fed. So, what to do with ALT.com and it's many members? What happens for real in here in the chats and messages, a lot of hot air methinks, never have seen one serious woman in AdultFriendFinder. Don't know if I ever will either, then they want money for a membership to meet people, in ALT.com #39;s world they think it will work for many, me personally I doubt it works at all!

If I am wrong, I haven't sen or heard from a woman yet on it or seen it. You tell me, ladies and gents am I wrong or right?
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