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Your position on..well submissive positions
Posted:Nov 14, 2017 4:54 pm
Last Updated:Nov 15, 2017 4:37 pm
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Its kinda ironic that i moved to kc 17yrs ago and there was this great devide between the mom and pop bdsmers\ old guard types and those that did their own thing.

So i followed those that did they own style of bdsm.

i was never properly introduced to certain rituals and restrictions placed on a submissive. I certainly never learned any positions.

To me such things seemed like something female subbies geek out over( no offense).

I honestly thought it looked stupid.

But in the past few days ive pulled a 180. I did some reading and thought the positions had a two fold effect. On one hand the positions are a constant reminder of one's status. Second i feel like it has the objectifying effect. ( But in a good way)

So it is really starting to appeal to me...

What are your thoughts on positions
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Moving on and back on the exercise wagon
Posted:Nov 12, 2017 7:03 am
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2017 4:56 pm
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Perhaps you notices that i havent been posting of late...

Ive been having some real bad sinus problems..seemed like nothing i took really opened them up.

I havent been running since july ....at that point i lost 26lbs...and then i guess i got lazy\ unmotivated\

Funny thing is women compain that men have it so easy..they can drop pounds without even thinking about it....
But men also seem to gain back the weight faster...

So three months later im back at that original starting weight
( Well minus 10lbs)

Unlike alot of folks that quit running because it is cold outside, i actually enjoy it.
The jogging paths at the parks are less crowded, im alone to just think about shit. It actually is very zen.
So during my lunch break ive been walk\ running two miles every day.

Sadly my running skills are no where near july's levels. Im seriously considering using one of those...couch to 5k in two months apps. My problem though is im a lil better conditioned than a couch potato....so those programs go from too much walking ( boring) in the beginning to...
Holy fuck were are three weeks in and barely running a mile.. so the app then really bust your balls to get you running that second mile...which can be too much
...this is the place where i stopped using the app.

But i did notice running did help my sinsuses. So im back to run\ walking

I think i need to get back on the running bus and stay there....
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So the hollywood solution to sexual crimes is an apology?
Posted:Nov 11, 2017 6:12 am
Last Updated:Nov 11, 2017 6:27 pm
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So i guess the template is set. Woman A\B or C comes out of left field with an accusation. The male is quickly judged in social media...he is expected to pull a mel gibson and fade away for a few years.( Or if he is a ceo etc to resign)
The women\ boys never press criminal charges ( sometimes through no fault of their own...there are statues of limitations etc) and he gets off with an apology?

Louise ck was accussed of masturbating in front of women...he freely admits he did it.....and then what? His career tanks for a brief period of time?

Note the irony..if i whipped out my dick and started to go to town in front of you, i'd be arrested. Id have criminal charges and and most likely would be put on a sex off registry.

The hollywood solution to address these casting couch episodes...dont hire white men. I kid you not...there is this huge push to hire a more ' diverse' work force in the industry.

Afraid to tell you but the best boys and grips and techs arent the ones sexually harassing people on set....its the freaking actors\ producers\agents\ directors.

Its the people in charge!!!!! And yes im totally cool with replacing those idiots with a more diverse workforce if it solves this problem.

How can you get back at these guys like louis ck\ jermey piven?...they are rich..made their millions and never have to work again...the answer is a criminal trial if possible.
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Soft butch
Posted:Nov 10, 2017 4:33 am
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2017 4:34 am
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Okay okay. If you’ve been following along you’d say wtf Leo your all over the place. One day your looking for dick.. the next a domme.. and today ?

I ran across an interesting ad from a woman.., which was odd considering my settings were just for men. But she popped up in a list of good matches for me? Which happens occasionally when someone makes a mistake.
This woman called herself a soft butch.. which to me is very cool. I’ve always enjoyed the company of lesbians/ had no problem with butches/etc. hell im attracted to them
she explained that she was trans fluid .. she had a male mind in a female body. To which I’m very cool with. Would have no problem dating this person.

So I gathered she sees herself as male yet still attracted to men? Which would be why she popped up on my list of possible matches.

But then why use the term “ butch”.. which normally applies lesbian instead of say just being masculine

Even odder is the additional questions she answered on ok Cupid
One specifically asked if she would date a bi person... she said no?

So yeah.. even I’m confused
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My annual men’s health rant
Posted:Nov 10, 2017 4:15 am
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2017 11:44 am
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So yeah. Did anyone even remember that Men’s health month is November? ( inserts crickets chirping)?
It’s kinda ironic that I mocked those stupid ‘ grow a moustache’ for awareness campaigns.
Hell this year you don’t even see that! The only reason I remembered was through some radio ad that hocked a cure for low t.
Can you imagine the fury if women’s health month was treated with this amount of fanfare .we talk about equality all the time... but I feel like men get the short stick a lot of times when it comes to the health care dollars.

And no I won’t get into a viagra debate...it’s stupid to assert that a man should just accept it as part of getting older. Funny how a lot of 40yr old men have ED.. I wouldn’t call that old.
Why do we even compare viagra to birth control? In reality shouldn’t viagra be compared to say hormone therapy for women going through menopause? That would be a fairer comparison. Both deal with a quality of life as one ages

Anyway getting side tracked. So where are men’s 5 k? Where are our blue ribbons on every product? When will the nfl wear blue for men?

I mean come on... he’ll we didn’t even get the ads featuring the goofy yuppie that turns himself into a lumber sexual for men’s health awareness this year.

Men’s health month is sorta like men’s health in general.. it’s mostly ignored till the shit hits the fan.
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Facebook is listening
Posted:Nov 9, 2017 4:46 am
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2017 8:34 am
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Saw this story where cco( chief crook officer) mark ( yeah i wana be your pres) fuckenburg of facebook fame came out and said

Chill yo!!! Facebook isnt listening to your conversation....

But there were tons of people in the comment section that claimed they had a private conversation in their homes and the next day ads for that duscussion's topic appeared on their face book page.

Say you were talking to your spouse about needing soap and the next day your facebook contains ads from proctor and gamble for dawn.

Just curious if this has happened to you? I dont facebook!

Yet if it is true then why are we surprised... That damn device from amazon is constantly on and listening. ( That was proven when that domestic violence went down in a house and the device called 911)

It wouldnt take anything to turn on your comp's mic or camera...

So the question is..do you actually trust mark fuckenberg and facebook?
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A letter of introduction
Posted:Nov 9, 2017 4:33 am
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2017 8:42 am
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I was curious as to what you all thought..

This one ad stated s\ he wanted a letter of introduction.....but didn' t want anything brief.

Now i am anything but brief...i could easily write this dominant a ten page note.

I just wondered how wordy should i be.....what would you like to see in an intro email? Also consider this isnt my first rodeo and im open and honest. So i have no problem talking about my personal life\ giving out personal info.
( It is also important to note that this dominant is very relationship orientated)

I want to approach this like a job interview and show this person why i am the best fit for the position ( and yeah compared to 99 percent of guys on these sites im a freaking gold mine..lol😎).
By this i mean that i check all the boxes this dominant requires.

But im not sure a dominant really wants a power point presentation..

I really don' t want to be ' that guy' that rambles on about what he likes....but at the same point our luv of the same fetishes increases my chances.
So i wanted to go into some detail because i feel like it separates me from the herd.
Quick example: male chastity...we both are into it. But there is a huge difference between me and joe blow. Joe has a deep fantasy about it. But will bitch and whine when actually put into one. Me? For me this isn't a fantasy\ i enjoy how they feel on me\have no problem wearing one\male chastity seems very natural to me and im very interested in long term containment.

So its hard to just gloss over a point like that...if not its like saying we both like cars..yet a dominant could prefer ford and me be a chevy guy.

And honestly if you enjoy chastity would such detail increase your curiousity about a potential submissive.

Not that i want to write about everything im into..lol...i just feel like a few special fetishes set me apart and make for good selling points.

So what should i write? What sorta info would you want to hear?
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Do straights treat the lifestyle differently than the lgbtg? Community?
Posted:Nov 8, 2017 5:05 am
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2017 1:03 pm
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In my opinion the straight community luvs to set up this great divide...

Your either vanilla...and if your on a site like this you must be trolling for sex\ a complete newbie\ an idiot or a perv.

Or your the real deal.....you got your flogger and you fly your kink flag...

But in the gay community it seems like kink isnt a biggie...its like they either roll kink into their everyday lives ( so doing kinky things like edging is no longer kink..its more of a gay thing).
Its like they arent big into labels and do what they enjoy.

The problem with being so relaxed is the gay community then tends to turn it up a bit when it comes to being kinky.

Go on any straight dating site and see if it even mentions kink...ok cupid sorta gets into it slightly with their additional question. But normally you wont find a kink referrence unless your on a kink site.

Go to alot of gay personal sites and you can click additional boxes for things your into...

So you may meet a nice guy and have no clue that he is kink friendly..his profile coukd be very nilla...yet on the gay site it isnt embarrassing to click on a box that says yeah..its no biggie..i want to be fisted.

And honestly should'nt kink be that laidback...there shouldnt be this great divide.

And who knows perhaps that lone box will help you to meet a nice guy..

I just know you broach certain topics with women ( like cbt) and alot freak out...broach that topic with a gay man and its no big deal...probably enjoys doing it
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Daylight savings time
Posted:Nov 6, 2017 3:50 am
Last Updated:Nov 7, 2017 4:04 am
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Forward and back...and even then some states\ or portions of states dont follow these rules..

I think it is time to just leave it forward and be done with it already.
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