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ralph696969 58M  
15000 posts
3/26/2017 6:50 am
how it seems


seems that there are lots of ready women around
seems that i am wanted by many of them
seems that being called Master is the order of the day
seems that being told they need to skype with me to prove themselves is a not very appealing process
how is it that you can find someone
how is it that you can find someone really interested
how is this all done with simply a phone and computer
how is it that others seem perfectly happy with penpal relationships
seems a waste of time to me
seems less than real
seems like a scam
seems like anything but wanting a real relationship
how is it that people find others here
how is it that folks seriously meet partners
how is it that wanting to skype is a bad thing
how is it that subs and Doms make sense of this
seems like the ready are not so ready
seems like the women are not usually women
seems like being someone's Master is simple
provided you want nothing more than to have this written communique that speaks to all needs and wants
seems like real is a joke
seems like finding someone on here is a joke
seems like i am the only real one somedays
seems i understand little of this place after 11 years

treat others as you wish to be treated this is why everyone around me gets cake!!!!!!


benoite 58F  
5441 posts
3/26/2017 9:09 am

REAL is a rarity!
I don't understand why people settle for less.
B


Everything in the world is about sex, except sex, sex is about power. - Oscar Wilde


tinkerfun 39F  
8189 posts
3/26/2017 9:20 am

I wonder how many of these men here are fake? I would imagine far less than women...

It would be nice if they had some basic manners though.


planelst2 66M
52 posts
3/26/2017 9:44 am

Just to add...

Seems like most think that you are gullible
Seems like they think of you as a human ATM

Just seems like it


jenny14 68T  
63415 posts
3/26/2017 10:04 am

ralph

I agree - it is unreal to many but some still enjoy this type of relationship or start to one...my .02 worth


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


_Please_SeduceMe 47F  
2399 posts
3/26/2017 10:18 am

I do not skype - but I do attend and host open Munches to meet people in my area. You are welcome to join us any time! one is Tuesday the 28th of March


1uncommondom 68M  
126 posts
3/26/2017 10:23 am

This is not an attack on bloggers – I adore a gorgeous feed, and I spend way too much time looking at them and liking them. What I am attacking is our need to look or be perfect when we know that we are not . . and perfection, after all, isn't what it seems.
But I know you can't possibly believe, {at our age} that anything is as it seems!!
So next time that little voice in your head starts saying, “wouldn’t it be nice if your life looked like THAT?” in response to a particularly fabulous profile/home/meal/exotic destination, catch yourself.
You know that what you’re looking for won't appear as it really is . . but appreciate the picture of what it seems to be.


ralph696969 58M  
12863 posts
3/26/2017 10:36 am

    Quoting 1uncommondom:
    This is not an attack on bloggers – I adore a gorgeous feed, and I spend way too much time looking at them and liking them. What I am attacking is our need to look or be perfect when we know that we are not . . and perfection, after all, isn't what it seems.
    But I know you can't possibly believe, {at our age} that anything is as it seems!!
    So next time that little voice in your head starts saying, “wouldn’t it be nice if your life looked like THAT?” in response to a particularly fabulous profile/home/meal/exotic destination, catch yourself.
    You know that what you’re looking for won't appear as it really is . . but appreciate the picture of what it seems to be.
good sense

treat others as you wish to be treated this is why everyone around me gets cake!!!!!!


ralph696969 58M  
12863 posts
3/26/2017 10:37 am

    Quoting _Please_SeduceMe:
    I do not skype - but I do attend and host open Munches to meet people in my area. You are welcome to join us any time! one is Tuesday the 28th of March
thanks

treat others as you wish to be treated this is why everyone around me gets cake!!!!!!


ralph696969 58M  
12863 posts
3/26/2017 10:37 am

    Quoting planelst2:
    Just to add...

    Seems like most think that you are gullible
    Seems like they think of you as a human ATM

    Just seems like it
yep, seems exactly like that

treat others as you wish to be treated this is why everyone around me gets cake!!!!!!


ralph696969 58M  
12863 posts
3/26/2017 10:38 am

    Quoting tinkerfun:
    I wonder how many of these men here are fake? I would imagine far less than women...

    It would be nice if they had some basic manners though.
those that don't have manners deserve little

treat others as you wish to be treated this is why everyone around me gets cake!!!!!!


ralph696969 58M  
12863 posts
3/26/2017 10:38 am

    Quoting benoite:
    REAL is a rarity!
    I don't understand why people settle for less.
    B
at times it seems real will never get here

treat others as you wish to be treated this is why everyone around me gets cake!!!!!!


sub_nouveau 47F  
2620 posts
3/26/2017 10:59 am

I so enjoy your writing, and observations Ralph - thank you!
Successful & fulfilling dynamics / relationships can start here. It is possible. Of course, sifting the wheat from the chaff takes immense effort, but when you happen across that one... doesn't it make it all worthwhile?

Let's talk. It's how we learn about yesterday and comprehend today.


ralph696969 58M  
12863 posts
3/26/2017 11:48 am

    Quoting sub_nouveau:
    I so enjoy your writing, and observations Ralph - thank you!
    Successful & fulfilling dynamics / relationships can start here. It is possible. Of course, sifting the wheat from the chaff takes immense effort, but when you happen across that one... doesn't it make it all worthwhile?
i've thought that way in the past yet it seems lately i find nothing but those that want relocation costs

treat others as you wish to be treated this is why everyone around me gets cake!!!!!!


planelst2 66M
52 posts
3/26/2017 3:41 pm

    Quoting ralph696969:
    i've thought that way in the past yet it seems lately i find nothing but those that want relocation costs
I had one like that a few weeks ago...was willing to leave and come here after only 20 minutes of talking...seems like one should wonder about the motive...truth or fiction?


ralph696969 58M  
12863 posts
3/26/2017 4:12 pm

    Quoting planelst2:
    I had one like that a few weeks ago...was willing to leave and come here after only 20 minutes of talking...seems like one should wonder about the motive...truth or fiction?
unless it has proved out differently it is probably a good assumption that the motive was moolah

treat others as you wish to be treated this is why everyone around me gets cake!!!!!!


planelst2 66M
52 posts
3/26/2017 4:15 pm

That was apparent...when I denied her request for gas money,she stopped communicating


ralph696969 58M  
12863 posts
3/26/2017 4:55 pm

    Quoting planelst2:
    That was apparent...when I denied her request for gas money,she stopped communicating
i'm sure she is in Nigeria upset as hell

treat others as you wish to be treated this is why everyone around me gets cake!!!!!!


planelst2 66M
52 posts
3/26/2017 5:06 pm

    Quoting ralph696969:
    i'm sure she is in Nigeria upset as hell
LOL....Probably


MsCassie2u 60F  
9237 posts
3/26/2017 6:57 pm


I can say I met a few from here...way back when I first joined alt. One was a dominant. I lived with him for several years. We were both REAL, lol!!
But he had issues, we all do, right. But I was not able to live with his.
And so it ended. It is strange though, that so many seem content with
nothing. I too use to attend munches and the BDSM clubs in Denver.
I met a police officer and he was REAL, lol!! But he was married. His wife
was okay with it, I was not!!
I just relocated to Arizona, soon when I feel adjusted and stable I will venture
out to one of their clubs!!
I blog because it is therapeutic and helps with all the challenges I face
in my daily life!!
Your REAL Buddha, right!!
I say stay positive and never give up, because what or who you seek might
just be looking for you as well!!


"Seduce my mind and you can have my body, find my soul and I'm yours Forever!"


imalwayson 49F  
1576 posts
3/26/2017 10:03 pm

I've met a few from here; some have become friends, some were nothing more than a first meet over coffee or dinner, some became play partners at one time or another. Then there are those totally unrealistic, obvious fakes and not worth continuing a conversation. I've found that most bloggers that I've met in real time are who they say they are, with one exception. Just my two cents.

Infinite... the ultimate expression of who I am ~ Gemini Syndrome


ralph696969 58M  
12863 posts
3/27/2017 4:03 am

    Quoting imalwayson:
    I've met a few from here; some have become friends, some were nothing more than a first meet over coffee or dinner, some became play partners at one time or another. Then there are those totally unrealistic, obvious fakes and not worth continuing a conversation. I've found that most bloggers that I've met in real time are who they say they are, with one exception. Just my two cents.
i agree that, for the most part, the bloggers i've met were exceptions

treat others as you wish to be treated this is why everyone around me gets cake!!!!!!


ralph696969 58M  
12863 posts
3/27/2017 4:05 am

    Quoting MsCassie2u:

    I can say I met a few from here...way back when I first joined alt. One was a dominant. I lived with him for several years. We were both REAL, lol!!
    But he had issues, we all do, right. But I was not able to live with his.
    And so it ended. It is strange though, that so many seem content with
    nothing. I too use to attend munches and the BDSM clubs in Denver.
    I met a police officer and he was REAL, lol!! But he was married. His wife
    was okay with it, I was not!!
    I just relocated to Arizona, soon when I feel adjusted and stable I will venture
    out to one of their clubs!!
    I blog because it is therapeutic and helps with all the challenges I face
    in my daily life!!
    Your REAL Buddha, right!!
    I say stay positive and never give up, because what or who you seek might
    just be looking for you as well!!

true and yes, im real as it gets

treat others as you wish to be treated this is why everyone around me gets cake!!!!!!


drmgirl622 61F  
4042 posts
3/27/2017 3:32 pm

I've had the pleasure of meeting one great blogger from this site.....I've got to make it a point to wander farther north and meet a few others close by


ralph696969 58M  
12863 posts
3/27/2017 5:06 pm

    Quoting drmgirl622:
    I've had the pleasure of meeting one great blogger from this site.....I've got to make it a point to wander farther north and meet a few others close by
me too

treat others as you wish to be treated this is why everyone around me gets cake!!!!!!



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