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Darkly deviant, elegantly debauched, intellectual, creative, compliant, headstrong, shy, passive, insatiable, sensual, sexual, sarcastic, adventurous libertine and a whole lot more besides. I am both straightforward and complex, and love being under total control although I am also fiercely independent. I guess I am a girl of contrasts.
I am TS (pre-op, but hopefully not for too much longer) and I am socially and legally transitioned - I live and work as female and I will only ever be female. I have also not had surgeries - my boobs and body are 100% homegrown organic.
I have been fortunate enough to explore my deeply engrained submissive tendencies extensively with women, couples, occasionally groups and very occasionally with exceptional men. I used to be very active on the London D/s club scene and actually had a spell as a domme, so if the vibe is right I can be a highly effective, seductively sensual or slightly scary switchy bitch too.
I am really into the cerebral side of D/s as well as the physical, think the whisper can be as effective as the whip, and I believe the mindfuck (both giving and receiving) is one of the most powerfully erotic sensations on the planet. I would love to explore some more dark corners of the imagination with a partner or partners in crime and see where it led us.
Please approach me with a degree of intelligence - D/s relies on making a connection, and that means conversation as well as natural chemistry. I do not suffer fools, gladly or otherwise, and I am not your slut until I say I am.
If you are interested in friendship only, I am open to that - I enjoy lively chats with quick-witted people who can get my neurons dancing and who can grasp my sometimes quirky humour and arcane references.
I can accommodate, but I'm also happy to travel far and wide for the right people and experiences. I travel a lot (both UK and overseas, Europe and the US in particular) so don't let distance be a barrier. I work for myself and usually have great flexibility in time and distance. I would also consider relocating worldwide for the right person or situation...
For more about me, my AshleyFAQs, some other pics of me and random musings, head to my blog [blog AshleyChangeling]
Please note. All my profile pics are of me, were taken by me, are owned by me and will stay mine. I am a pro photographer in the real world, and any institutions or individuals thinking they can nick them and use them elsewhere, be warned - I will hunt you down. Then flay you alive. With my carefully manicured nails.
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My Ideal Person:
Primarily interested in women and couples (or perhaps a fellow TS), for friendship, or more hands-on involvement and who-knows-what if the spark catches. The ultimate would be to find the woman, couple or TS who would turn out to be my soulmate(s), lover(s), Mistress(+), spiritual equal, muse and mentor(s), but that's a big ask I guess. Hope springs eternal and all that.
I wouldn't rule out single men, but you need to be truly exceptional to get my attention.
I still have my submissive side, but I do switch with girls and within couples if it feels right. It is quite hard for me to specify what my 'ideal' LTR might be, because these things are so dependent on the chemistry between me and my partner(s); I like the idea of and am open to 24/7 but I think it takes a special and very rare connection to make that a viable reality so I'm not holding my breath and it's not a deal-breaker.
In more general terms, I have a broad range of experience, and I know my limits well although they are always ready to be challenged. Equally, I have a list of deviances and more hardcore fantasies that have yet to be fulfilled  . I love prolonged heavy restraint, hard use and consensual non-consent, but I also love the more sensual, erotic, slow-burn and fun side of things. The path we would walk is not prescribed and would be based on mutual interests, dynamics and chemistry.
However I absolutely, unequivocally and resolutely do not domme single men, so please do not ask. If, IF, I should decide to do that one day, I'll be the one making first contact.
Oh, and please remember that I am a person, not just a D/s label, and there is no single definition that can capture my complexities or my varying interests - and if we don't get on outside the bedroom it's unlikely I will be interested in joining you in the bedroom, and certainly not in joining you for a relationship.
Ashley out. xx
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