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Okay, a little about me. Outgoing friendly gentleman that enjoys the lifestyle. I am careful as to how I will express myself on here. I do not wish to paint a picture that creates a false sense that I am some sort of superman. I am not. But at the same time, I will convey enough to hopefully capture your interest.
I guess the first thing is to give a brief description. I learned about the lifestyle about 10 years ago. I slowly read and began to practice after I found that I truly enjoyed the lifestyle. I have come to realize the lifestyle offers many variations and everybody has things about it they enjoy and some they do not. The most important thing I have learned is that trust and respect are two of the most important ingredients to a healthly D/s relationship. I feel even more so than a typical "vanilla" relationship. Of course the ability to communicate is paramount to the health of the relationship. It is through discussion and eye contact that the relationship begins to develop and prosper.
I have expereinced 24/7 TPE, I have dwindled in the "Daddy Dom", I have also provided some pain to ones that really sought it. I have a lot to learn myself and I will never pretend to be a know it all. I truely believe when one stops learning, then they stop living.
I have learned that mental stimulation is just as effective if not more effective than physical exertion of punishment.
So what is it I seek. I will not mis-lead anyone. I am looking for a partner for life. Someone to grow with and develop additional skills. In turn, I hope this will allow her development as a submissive or slave to succeed as well. But in order to find that partner, several opportunities are presented and must be investigated. Friendship within the lifestlye is never a bad thing.
I will not even think about my paddle or crop at first. I want to find someone to learn about and for them to learn about me. I believe strongly is taking my time. I have been accused of being too slow, but that is okay. I am a patient man and will not accept anything less than my expectations.
Okay on the vanilla side. I am a professional. I have a life outside of the lifestyle. So while I desire to live 24/7 there is definitely a time and a place for everything. The one I seek must understand that and grasp it as well. That is all I will say about my private life. Once I gain a bit if trust, I may open up a little more about my personal life.
For the record, I am divorced and not involved with anyone currently.
I cannot re-locate, this is non-negotiable for the time being. However, I think you might enjoy my tiny little waterfront cottage...smiling.
I do not have an interest in Gorean or poly. I seek one dedicated to Me. If she has bi-sexual desire, that will be open to discussion but I am not a swinger nor do I believe I can give my attention to more than one sub/slave at a time.
If you have read this far, I am impressed. I am sure I have turned away many by now. So be it. I am Me and I am real. This is just the way it is. You either accept me or you don't. You are entitled to that.
To all the girls that think old-fashioned and believe the man should make the first contact. I am not a mind reader. If you have an interest, say so.
Anything else, you will just have to ask.
Until then,
Capt. Blue
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My Ideal Person:
I am looking for a special lady that desires to grow within the lifestyle. She may be new, she may be experienced, it does not matter.
This will be the show stopper for many: I have done my time as a parent and soon will be an empty nester. So with that said, My preference would be a sub/slave that has either grown children that have made it into teh independent world or no children at all.
What I do expect is her to be real. So with that said, if you have no desire to meet in real time, then do not waste my time. I will converse with you to provide guidance as I beleive it is essential to broaden the horizons.
She may be sassy, she may be shy and reserved. She may seek pain or she may seek a Daddy...I am flexible. But most of all, she must be able to communicate when expected.
She must be emotionally and mentally strong, intelligence would be wonderful but not necessary.
I also have my preferences on the physical looks. But I will keep them to myself. You will know if you meet my eye.
Ultimately, I am expecting a LTR.
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