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[B]This is a unique opportunity for anyone who has a strong desire to live in the alternative lifestyle, or is seriously thinking about it.!![/B]
You can become part of My "Family"/Group living in the alternative lifestyle, with others, both male and female, who are also highly motivated and adventurous. In this case the term Family/Group is known as a poly household, by those in the alternative lifestyle.
You must desire a 24/7 Total Power Exchange, Master/slave or Dominant Daddy/little girl, relationship, and actually be willing and able to relocate.
You must have a submissive personality, although you may be a switch in scenes, with others
[B]It is a simple three phase process.[/B]
[U][B]Phase I[/B][/U]: [I]Become a submissive/slave prospect. Get acquainted, with the goal of determining mutual suitability and compatibility. The initial training... How well do you learn and adapt. Determine if you have the proper personality characteristics. Determine if you have the proper reasons and motivations to live in the alternative lifestyle. Become familiar with Rules and Protocols, and practice their use. All online and/or phone.[/I].
[U][B]Phase II[/B][/U]. [I]Acceptance as a probationary submissive/slave member of the Family. Receive a collar. Continued training and development. Sign a contract specifying your status and our relationship in legal terms. Relocation will be necessary at sometime during this phase. That will be negotiated considering all factors.
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[U][B]Phase III[/B][/U]: [I]Become an accepted lifetime Family member with a ceremony receiving a slave ring, a small tattoo signifying your status and an option to change your last name to the Family last name.[/I]
[B][I]There is a fast track option for those that must move or wish to move out of their present situation/location quickly for any reason, as follows...[/I]
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Phase I can be accomplished in 30 days. Relocate to Virginia Beach. You will be trained in primarily the mental aspects, developing trust and learning the Rules and Protocols for about 90% of the time. About 10% will be basic scene and role play. Any prior experience will be taken into account. Supervision will be around the clock.
At the end of this initial training, you will be accepted into Phase II of your training. Or you may choose to withdraw if you wish, at any time.
The Family is an integrated unit, living together and mutually supportive in all that we do. Our purpose is to enjoy life to the fullest, taking advantage of living in the best of the alternative lifestyle, while taking advantage of the best offerings of the "vanilla" world.
[B]This is Poly Fidelity at it's very best.!.[/B]
In the Family, there are opportunities for a wide variety of lifestyle activities, such as multiple partners, scenes and role play. Family members are encouraged to play together. This avoids the difficult task of finding suitable and reliable people for such activities outside the Family, while also avoiding potential problems with STD's. Although at times, selected guests may join us. Secret sexual affairs, outside the Family and without My knowledge are forbidden.
The living environment is totally erotic within our closed domain and for all lifestyle activities.
As the Master and Family leader... I am a Teacher, Instructor, Coach, Guide and Mentor. Loyalty is given and expected in return.
I am well educated, highly intelligent, with wide interests, and a great sense of humor, and many years in the alternative lifestyle. A psychological test on this site, classified my type as "The General." A dominant and natural leader and quite accurate.
I do not "switch" under any circumstances.
All submissives are wanted, cared for, protected, kept safe, and appreciated at all times.
No one is ever permanently harmed, physically, emotionally, psychologically, sexually or socially. (To do otherwise is illegal.!!)
Rules, Rituals and Protocols, provide both structure and control, in a strict, firm, fair and consistent manner, which is essential for a stable drama free Family environment.
A profession, career, work, or other non-lifestyle talents and activities are encouraged and supported in every way. Balance in life is important.
Education and training are a high priority. Not only training and education in all aspects of the alternative lifestyle, but in all fields, including possible college or university studies leading to a recognized degree. I am interested in the development of every Family member to their fullest potential.
Excellent communications are extremely important. Your mental limits will be tested, as well as all other limits. Open and honest communications are required.
My primary fetishes are: 24/7/365 (TPE); Master/slave; Dominance/submission; Control; Training; Erotic Clothing (for submissives); Role Play. An extensive listing of "activities enjoyed," is available and is considered secondary and in support of the primary fetishes. I have engaged in most all these activities.
The specific needs of each submissive are analyzed and met, at the appropriate level. A submissive may simply desire to be obedient, to serve, to please and to be loyal. Extreme play and hard BDSM is also acceptable. The need for pain is not a requirement, but such needs will be totally satisfied, along with all your other needs and fetishes.
All hard limits are respected, including sexual orientation. No pressure is ever applied to change these hard limits, but they may be changed with your consent. (This is an important and necessary legal consideration.)
[I][B]For anyone who feels a real desire to live in the alternative lifestyle, and who can be as dedicated and committed to it as I am for the long term, if not a lifetime, this is a unique opportunity[/B][/I]
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My Ideal Person:
My Ideal Person
An ideal person to join our alternative lifestyle Family will have the following personal characteristics: 1.) Intelligence 2.) Openness 3.) A sense of adventure 4.) Mental strength 5.) Honesty 6.) Patience 7.) Dedication 8.) Commitment 9.) Self control 10.) Discipline 11.) Sincerity 12.) Resolve.
They will have the following reasons and motivations to join our alternative lifestyle Family: 1.) A desire for sexual excitement 2.) A desire for freedom from day-to-day cares and responsibilities 3.) A desire to please your Master 4.) A desire to serve your Master 5.) A desire to be obedient to your Master 6.) A desire to be loyal to your Master. All these must be strongly held reasons and motivations. These reasons and motivations must be an inner passion.
If you do not have these personal characteristics and these reasons and motivations to be in the alternative lifestyle, or if the inexperienced or unskilled dominant(s) that you could possibly choose, do not have an understanding of them, you'll never be in a successful relationship.
Your brain is the biggest sex organ in your body and any other body parts involved are merely input/output devices. A 24/7/365 (TPE) relationship is primarily mental. It is not simply sexual or fetish fantasy activity ongoing 24/7.
A strong bond must develop with your Master and those in the Family, based on mutual trust, knowledge of each other, tolerance, and confidence in each other. And this bond is essential for any alternative lifestyle relationship to be successful and truly rewarding. Such a bond is purely mental, having nothing to do with physical or superficial characteristics. Further, it does take time for this bond to develop. It's not the "Cosmo" instant romantic and fantasy type of relationship.
You should be looking for an experienced Master with wisdom, common sense, extensive worldly knowledge, natural leadership ability and the ability to manage their own affairs and the affairs of others in a totally responsible manner. Also, a truly competent Master must be mentally very well adjusted, with the skills to analyze the needs of others and respond to those needs effectively and fairly. Any dominant that can't control themselves, will ruin your life.
You should never be looking for a boyfriend, boy toy, bully boy, or other CHDW (Clueless Horny Dominant Wannabe). If you are, go to the next profile now.
You prefer an exciting life surrounded by others, who care for you and support you in all that you do, just as you care for and support them in all that they do.
You are not excessively bratty or feisty, willfully disobedient or play "catch me if you can" games.
Experience in the alternative lifestyle is not necessary, but having the proper personal characteristics and the proper reasons and motivations are critical. I will train novices, those with little or no experience, if I feel that you are suitable. Those with 24/7 live in experience will be retrained in my requirements and style.
My preference is for a committed long term, if not a lifetime relationship. However, I will train someone for a short term, that would like to gain real experience in the lifestyle and try it. At least a "long weekend" would be the minimum. The 30 day fast track training is intense, but would give you a very worthwhile experience.
A fundamental understanding of 24/7/365 (TPE) is helpful, and it does not mean being a floor mat or mindless robot. You are at all times considered to be a unique, thinking and feeling human being, with needs which you stated in your profile, and further developed in our in depth communications.
Relocation is not an immediate requirement, as it does take some time to determine if there is a proper and compatible fit. Haste on your part or ours is ill advised. However, relocation will be expected after a suitable time has passed and mutual compatibility has been established. This is negotiable in subsequent communications. I welcome those from anywhere in the world.
Superficial characteristics are of relatively little importance. While exceptions will be considered, I prefer females 35 years old or less, and no larger than Rubenesque (curvy). Any other "sizes" or data are not truly relevant.
Any male prospects should be less than 60 years old and professionals or should have fairly high level skills in a specialty or trade. The ability to be productive is important.
Any couple prospects should be sub/sub or sub/switch, or switch/switch and both will have equal status. Both will participate together in all Family activities according to their desires and needs.
If you feel that you are totally suitable, don't hesitate to contact Me. The most important considerations by far, are your personal characteristics and your reasons and motivations, as listed above.
You must have the courage to overcome the "submissive's dilemma."
That is, you must have the courage to overcome your natural tendency to have difficulty making decisions. If you think that you might fit into the Family, and you have a true desire to live in the alternative lifestyle, don't be too shy or indecisive to contact me.
You have absolutely nothing to lose and possibly everything to gain.
I have had submissives/slaves come to Virginia from the eastern US and long distances such as Redding, in Northern California, Albuquerque, New Mexico, the Atlanta Georgia area, the Chicago Illinois area, and as far away as Melbourne Australia.
If you have read this profile down to this point, you have some potential and promise!
The legal contract mentioned in Phase II, above, is a legal contract, called a "Roommate Contract." It legally explains the relationship between two or more people and their rights, duties, and privileges, and who live together in the same premises.
Importance Notices: No money, gift cards, or other items of monetary value will be given to those in the "slave prospect" category mentioned in Phase I, of the training program.
All photos on a profile are scanned and tested by an image finder program. Any profile that contains photos from a porn site, or escort services site will not be responded to.
Assume nothing... ask any questions or doubts you may have on your mind.
[If you don't know where you're going, it's really really hard to get there
The longest journey starts with one small step. Take that step now and contact Me.! Send a flirt or put me on your hot list, so that I know that you have a real interest.!
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