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DaytonaBob469  
Very Experienced Dom/Switch Looking for Mate/Playmate
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Last Visit: More than 3 months
Member Since: March 7, 2018

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   September 20, 1960
(63 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Flagler Beach, Florida, United States
Relocate?:   Maybe/Yes
Height:   6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm
Body Type:   A little extra padding
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Associate degree (2 years college)
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Black
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Brown
Glasses or Contacts :   Prefer not to say


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   Prefer not to say
Role:   Switch
Level of Experience:   Whole adult life
Dress:   Prefer not to say
Social Orientation :   Conservative
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Prefer not to say

Personal
Male Endowment: Average/
Average
Circumcised: Yes
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children : No
Religion: Prefer not to say

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63 year old Man in Flagler Beach, Florida, United States Looking For: Women

Profile for DaytonaBob469
I know my profile is to long but I hope it is at least informative for you.... PLEASE NOTE: After roughly a month on this website I have found that at least 7 out of 10 profiles are fake and belong to a scammer simply wanting money from me. If you choose to contact me or to answer an email from me I WILL NOT BE SENDING YOU ANY MONEY FOR ANY REASON. If we are to meet I can send you a prepaid, nonrefundable, no change allowed airline ticket and a prepaid Uber to pick you up and take you to the airport, but I WILL NOT be sending anybody I have never ever met any money directly -- Ever.. I have posted a picture of myself holding a paper with my Alt.com username on it. This helps show that I am actually the person you are talking to. I am looking for someone to meet in person and have a real relationship with. If your not real or not looking for a real in person relationship I'm not your man. If you don't have a picture of you and your username I will be asking you for one. If you are unable or unwilling to send it to me, please just don't contact me in the first place. Due to some of the licenses and certifications I have (Read more about them below) I am subject to routine testing so therefore I must say that I am not 420 friendly and I hope for whatever reason you are also not 420 friendly as well as not friendly with or using any other illegal or illicit substance. I rarely drink and am almost always the designated driver. I have no problem if you want to get a good buzz but do not get sloppy or out of control. That is not attractive or desirable at all. I am 100% disease free and have no problem going to the clinic to get tested to provide you with current clean results. I will ask the same of you. And now, onto the good stuff!! I have tried several different sites to try to find the right match for myself. Ultimately I would like to find someone that will be my permanent full time mate, partner, lover and kinkstress. While a permanent 24/7 live in mate/companion/wife would be ideal, in the meantime I am looking for someone to have a great mutually beneficial relationship with. For the right woman I will provide all support needed including comfortable housing, food, clothing.... She will not need to work outside the house other than to help me in my job. She will be treated with respect, compassion, care, kindness, loved and always looked out for and always protected from any harm. I will at all times be loyal and faithful to her and will unquestionable have her back, no matter what. I will always be honest, never lie and will never steal from her. In return I expect and require all of those same things from her. I am a very experienced Dom and occasional sub often called a “Switch”. I really enjoy and am very good at both sides of the equation. I have a well equipped play room with quality equipment. My particular interests are mostly bondage, teasing/denial, edging, electrosex, and some role playing scenarios including some PDA and “Risky locations" I love to see a woman in heels/boots and a skirt. This is of course not a complete list but gives you an idea of where my head is at. Getting my partner into her special head subspace is quite a turn on for me and I go out of my way to get her there. If your new to or just interested in some of the sexual adventures I mentioned above I am very good at introducing a lady to these things and helping her to learn what she really enjoys, wants and needs to get the ultimate satisfaction. I can teach you how to get into that special mental subspace that allows you to enjoy yourself like never before. I can also teach you to become the dominant one in room allowing you to experience a new level of control and power you have not felt before. The best part is that I can do or not do any or all of these things depending on you, your wants, desires and needs. Communication, open and completely honest which leads to the trust needed for these kinds of activities to be fully enjoyed are/is the key. I never judge and everything is OK to talk about and potentially do/try. Safe words are always used and always 100% respected… (But rarely does the need to use them arise… LOL) My late wife was very Bi and we often attended swinger parties and frequently had a single lady join us for a few hours of overnight fun. I am very familiar with the “rules” associated with such relationships. I am well educated with 2 college degrees and a lot of extremely varied vocational training that has led me to have a few different and interesting careers. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*I am a federally licensed air craft mechanic having spent several years turning wrenches on helicopters. At 1 point I was working on my private pilot license but a life situation arose that put a stop to that. At some point I would really like to complete that and get my private pilot license. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*A combined total of 25+ years as a Paramedic, Paramedic/Firefighter and later as a Registered Nurse in the ER and I have taught many EMT/First responder and some Nursing classes. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*I am also a certified shooting instructor and have instructed several hundred students including law enforcement and military personnel in various tactical firearm self defense courses. I am also certified to teach the Florida CCW class if your interested. I believe in total honesty, (Especially when talking about the various sexual escapades as noted above). I am respectful of others both of the person and of their time. Time is valuable. I will not waste yours and I require that you do not waste mine. I believe in opening doors for a lady when I can. I am hoping that I will be lucky enough to find another woman that is compatible with my sexual interests that is truly single and available, has no living at home and wants a real full time 24/7 live in partner, friend and teammate and I will always protect her and have her back as I know she will do the same for me. In the meantime, I’m open for pretty much anything from a basic friends with benefits (And respect) relationship to a full blown 24/7 live in fulltime relationship. It all depends on the situation and mutual wants, needs and availability. I enjoy: Cooking and I’m pretty good at it. Touring type motorcycles, Shooting, Certified SCUB diver, Boating, (power or sail), Riding 4 wheelers, building and fixing things and more! TV: Big Bang, Last Man Standing, Blue Bloods, NCIS (The original), Big Bang Theory Movies: Forever Young, Quigley Down Under, Old westerns, John Wayne, Steve McQueen. Most any genre (including some “Chick Flicks”) but not Horror. Music: Just about anything except /Hip Hop If you have made it this far and your still reading, you must be interested so please contact me and let me know! A simple “Hi” is all it takes and I’ll respond back. So, if your even sort of interested, drop me a line. It is the only way you or I will ever know... And it is free and only takes a few seconds. What have you got to loose? PLEASE NOTE: I have spent a fair amount of time putting together my profile and answering a bunch of questions, listing my particular kinks , what it is I am looking for here and what I hope to get out of being a member here. Please don't contact me and ask, "What are you looking for here"? Doing so only tells me that you did not bother to read my profile. Yes it is a bit long but If you really want to know what I'm looking for here... simply read the profile.. :) I will take the time to read your profile before I respond to you and if I contacted you first, you can believe I have read your profile top to bottom. So, when you contact me to let me know that you really have read my profile, please as the very first thing you say to me put this “secret word” at the very top, first word of your letter: “Peterbuilt” Thanks and I hope to hear from you soon!! Respectfully yours, Daytona Bob [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
I could be very happy with any of the following:
\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*A true sub willing to be collared and be mine and mine alone.
\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*A sub that wants to be a sub in private but a more normal relationship in public.
\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*A true slave
\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*A true switch that is able to fully and completely make the power exchange from bottom to top and back as the situation/scene dictates... OR someone that is a sub but wants to learn to be able to do this.

In any situation I require devotion, respect, compassion, passion, love and total devotion. In return I will provide the same while always insuring that you are protected from any and all harm and kept safe at all times.

It really all depends upon the individual chemistry you and I have. I can be devoted to just 1 person or we can each have our own lives but during "Our time" we are 100% there and "in the room" and not on the phone endlessly texting and living an outside life.

The relationship can be full time or more of a friends with benefits thing. Again, it really all depends on what your wanting and how things work out between you and I.


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