I am still fairly new to the the lifestyle but have a lot of experience and have read / studied a lot. I am still trying new things and I love to be challenged. To this point I have played with hot wax, bondage, spanking/flogging,blindfolds, ice, breast bondage, there are many other things I want to try but have more studying to do. I am a firm believer in safe , sane , consensual all limits will be tested and all hard limits will be respected. Also I try to get on IM as often as I can so if anyone would like to talk look for me there.
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My Ideal Person:
Once again am seeking the one who will challenge and push me. One that has similar interests and her own as well. One who is willing to learn together and grow in the lifestyle. A true partner both in the lifestyle and in life in general.
I just want to add here that I feel a good Dom / Domme does not try to change a spirited sub, the trick is to train the sub to redirect and rechannel that spirit and energy in a manner which is pleasing to the top and helps the sub grow in their role. the reason I added this is I had a discussion with another Dom who felt it was a flaw to be erradicated from a sub. Feel free to e-mail opinions some are enlightening and others amusing lol be well all
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