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InspiredDom17  
The sweet life of being oneself
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Member Since: October 9, 2017

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   June 16, 1971
(52 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Englewood, Colorado, United States
Relocate?:   No
Height:   6 ft 2 in / 187-190 cm
Body Type:   Athletic
Smoking:   I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I use some recreational drugs
Education:   BA/BS (4 years college)
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length :   Bald
Eye Color :   Hazel
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   Once a day
Role:   Dominant
Level of Experience:   More than five years
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Moderate
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Average

Personal
Male Endowment: Long/
Average
Circumcised: Yes
Have Children: Yes. We sometimes live together.
Want Children : Happy with what I have
Religion: Protestant

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52 year old Man in Englewood, Colorado, United States Looking For: Women, Couples (man/woman) or Couples (2 women)

Profile for InspiredDom17
I have spent over a decade questioning, wondering, exploring, discovering, understanding and coming to accept who I am and what I am about. I have discovered (with reasonable) clarity what I want and need in my life. I have learned what it takes for such a dynamic to come into being, what it is that I am willing to invest of myself in creating and maintaining those things, and most importantly, what that all "means" (or doesn't mean) for ME in how I am going to live my life from here. I have had some incredibly amazing experiences...gone wider and deeper than I ever imagined possible into my exploration and actualization of D/s and BDSM. I have had the incredible fortune of having experienced some profound sexual connections without strong power dynamic energies, and of being served by several incredible women where the power dynamic energies was so present and palpable and strong, neither of us could have altered or changed them even if either of us had tried. One of the biggest realizations I had was that my interest in women was not just sexual. It was a genuine and sincere interest in seeing them for the beautiful amazing beings that they are. I studied and learned how to read and understand and interpret a lot of what they said and how they thought and what they did. I learned a lot about how much of what they are taught to believe, or how they are treated by others, or what they expect to accomplish despite traveling the same tired path that hasn't produced the results they want or need. I also discovered that so much of what seemed obvious and apparent for me, more often than not was a complete and total surprise to them. Sometimes they struggled with what their true wants and needs were, oftentimes including processing what the implications of those wants and needs might be (what it MEANT!?!), but just as frequently, even when they knew exactly what it was that they wanted or needed, and even when they were willing to do just ANYTHING to actually find and have it, they still couldn't seem to locate it or pin it down or create a situation or scenario in which it existed. To me this realization was amazing. The reasons were obvious...the solutions clear...and yet...no one seemed to be able to explain it in a way that they understood...or even in a language that they could relate to. It became clear that this was one of my gifts. The ability to express and share and communicate on any and all levels. The skill and capacity to create a safe comfortable space in which to experiment and explore without the usual "head-games" and "ego". Other than having had really good sensual, sexual experiences...what I discovered is that, for me, ALL of this comes down to the connection that we sense and feel and allow to swell up (or gush forth) and exist and SHARE with others! The commonality of interests and outlooks and interests and kinks are helpful, to be sure (and provide SOME safety and common language for the dialog), but what is really important, is the exchange...and that comes from the openness and honesty and integrity of the relationship. This is what creates a safe and supportive space to experience and enjoy and SAVOR our selves. This is what allows us all to "BE" ourselves. THIS gives real purpose and meaning to a lot of interactions - even when they are decidedly less than complex or in no need of any real meaning at all. THIS...infused with all the other things that I found to be important ingredients for having really good sexual interactions...are what I found help make such experiences mind blowingly incredible...almost transcendental. And THIS is what I am about creating and helping others to create over and over and over again, ideally for the rest of my life. And if I am lucky...really REALLY lucky, and can find the strength and courage to open myself up wide enough, and become fully present and aware, and constantly work to continue deepening the connection with myself...until I am so solidly rooted in that place (beyond those fears of 'what may happen if another gets too deeply inside of me')...I might find a woman whose OWN deepest desires and compulsions and needs are to serve ME exactly for the MAN that I am (including all that I am NOT). and in return, my own deepest desires and compulsions and needs will be to serve HER in the ways that I am skilled and capable and want and need to serve as the rock for the woman she is (as well as everything she ISN'T). There is a whole range of possibilities that exist within what I just wrote, from Dominant, to Daddy, to Sir, to Master. I am not hung up on being any one thing...or being ALL of those things...to another. It all depends on the energy and the dynamic that exists naturally and easily and effortlessly between us, and which ones of those we might create and reveal and choose to express for one another. Because here is the deal, and I really do MEAN this when I write it. You don't have to search everywhere...you just have to open the door. And when you do...that is when it is most likely to just walk into your life. That may strike some of you as awfully convenient for someone such as myself to say (I suppose on the theory that it encourages exploration but always offers an easy "out"). But I really think the problem is that we can't control OUTCOMES! All we can control is who we want to be. I guarantee, that the second a WOMAN comes into my life with whom I feel totally FREE and comfortable to be 100% my authentic and unfiltered self around (no pretention's or "looking good" to GET some selfish outcome), someone who REALLY turns me on, and LIGHTS me up, and just causes TIDAL WAVES of energy to start pulsing through my body and gets my juices flowing... When I encounter THAT...I can PROMISE you that I will NEVER let THAT woman leave my side again! But I don't believe it is possible that I would SEE her, even if she DID walk into my life, if SHE wasn't herself as ready and committed and sincere and intentional about cutting out all the other bullshit games the majority of us never stop playing. To the degree that either partner can't do that, or isn't resolved and determined to be who they need to be in order to "see" what happens...I just hope to meet some amazing women with whom I can share some really incredible, mind blowing experiences with...and that isn't exactly a bad consolation! [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
I seek other adventurers working their way through their own personal journey's as best as they can. Women and Couples, not that need 'saving'..but that are smart and passionate and creative and are committed to living their lives with vigor and purpose and being present, that go into experiences open and available to allow amazing things to happen! Those who want to try something new, or unlocking some long closed doors, or find a breakthrough with regards to something that has been holding them back, or even open up new realms entirely. The WHAT and the WHY are much less relevant than the HOW.

I don't place any expectations with anyone that I interact with. I am just as happy to have a hot and heavy chat or thought provoking and insightful email exchange as I am to just about anything else. I play with other women with couples...with groups. Whoever they are, and however they live, and whatever it is that they aspire to become, all I ask is that they be real and honest and expressed and open to whatever it is that the universe may open to them or me or us.

Otherwise, there really isn't any rocket science behind any of this. It works or it doesn't. But when it does work, I have found that those who pursue it with passion and energy and purpose and infused with meaning...it is just SOOO much better. I look forward to hearing from anyone who read this and felt some connection to what I said.


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