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[B][COLOR red]"We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone...
We find it with another."[/COLOR][/B]
Is that not why we are all here?
Professional male, average looks, GSOH, experienced in many BDSM aspects, very creative, enjoys developing creative, exciting scenes for partners.
In short - a good boy with a nasty, filthy, debauched imagination. Fancy being corrupted??
Despite what you might think from my "handle," I am absolutely NOT the kind of guy who uses violence and misogyny masquerading as dominance to get his jollies!
I am only interested in SAFE SANE CONSENSUAL play.
It's just that occasionally, I like the play to become "consenually non-consensual," if thats not a total contradiction.. I guess by nature, if I have to label myself, I am mostly a "Daddy-dom," seeking a "," or possibly some kind of "Teacher-type" seeking a "teacher's pet," but definitely someone who seeks to nurture and develop their subs!
I am a good "all-rounder" sexually... I love naughty sex, (roleplay, foodplay etc,) I love kinky sex, (bondage, spanking etc,) I love nasty sex, (taboo play, watersports etc.) I even love [I]nice[/I] sex... (snogging, massage, oral etc...)
I am a "strict but fair" type, and I believe that rewarding good behaviour is just as important as punishing bad...
I think this shows itself in that my most "Dom" characteristic is my protective streak. I am massively protective, and I would love to meet someone who wants a guy to be protective towards her... And please note - there is a world of difference between "protective," which I am, and "possessive," which is an entirely different and very destrucive emotion, which I am not!
I am particularly good at helping ppl discover their inner slut... getting ppl to admit their darkest, most intimate desires and fantasies. Many of my most recent playmates have confided in me that their interests lie around the taboo and beyond... Do you share these debauched feelings??? If you do, we may have one of those all-important "connections!"
And as such, I try not to be prescriptive with a list of limits and no-nos... Since I came to Alt, I have learnt that the right person can blur the edges between sub and dom and broaden those limts... (Or demolish them altogether!) It's all about the "connection!" Which is why, under the heading "role" I have entered "not applicable" as there was no heading titled "constantly emerging!" But rest assured, for most people I am 100% Dom... Well, 99% anyway... Oh, go on then... 95%
So, I am not interested in being "just another" notch on your network pages. I am only interested in hearing from people with a view to genuine meetings. Similarly, if I initiate contact, I am looking to meet in person. Eventually!!
That does not mean I expect to meet after the first exchange of email, but if we are no further down the line in six months time, then thats a wee bit too patient than I care to be. And I am normally very [I][B]very[/B][/I] patient!
When it comes to BDSM play, I'm a "little bit of everything" kind of guy. Well, maybe that should be a "lot of everything," but what I mean is that I derive as much pleasure from say a playful spanking scene, as a really intense, dirty forced scene. I like everything...naughty sex, kinky sex, and nasty sex!! I suppose this is my "dark side" - my "vanilla" self is kind, caring, thoughtful, easy going, GSOH, and good company, both inside the bedroom* and out.
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The best things in life are...
Good sex, rock music, laughter, good food, fizzy drinks (non-diet varieties,) Buffy, mountains, forests, lakes/rivers/water in general, dolphins, castles, secluded cottages, hidden rooms, candles, and above all else... "connections"
The worst things in life are...
Dishonesty, bigotry, ignorance, and people who leave their supermarket trolleys lying anywhere around the car park, because they have a "you don't keep a and bark yourself" kind of attitude... Lazy, arrogant, ignorant fu**ers.
Well, ok, Also ppl who park their cars across two spaces in said carparks, usually because they have a new, big, flash car, & they are so scared someone might bump it...well matey, I might bump it...with my hammer, the next time I can't get a space cos you are taking up two, you selfish twat!
Which of course brings us to bad drivers...and crap bar staff, you know, the ones who never keep an eye open to see who is next to be served - they just waltz over to the nearest person to them...And then obviously the ppl they serve out of turn are almost as bad, the ignorant bastards; is their time so much more precious than mine that they can't wait their turn??
And these are usually the "victims of fashion" types...you know the ones who sneer at heavy rock music, saying that something like " In Time" is just mindless screaming, yet the next night they're throwing their arms in the air to some noise that consists of a jackhammer beat, 4 notes, & 7 words repeated constantly throughout the song. Bastards.
And ppl who borrow your porn videos & never return them.
Other than that, I love everyone... Really, I'm a pussycat!!
Someone recently pointed out that the last few paragraphs could make it seem like I am a bit of a moaner... a Victor Meldrew if you like, and she did not know if I was going to dom her or moan at her... Rest assured, gentle reader, I am NOT a moaning minnie... rather being overly exaggerated for comic effect... That dry sarcastic humour is just my bag!
Abolute dealbreaker - Lack of bodily hygeine.
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My Ideal Person:
Ideally looking for a LTR, with someone who wishes to share these darker pleasures.
I do not really have a "type" as recently I have played with girls who are 5', size 8/10, up to 6' bbws and all points betwixt and between. But if I had to name an ideal, it would be someone who's a bit of a rock chick, and would be equally at home getting done up to go out for a gig or club, or dressing in her most sensual, sexy gear, ready for a prolonged, debauched play session!
[NOTE this does NOT mean that I am interested solely in an Amy Lee clone... if you are not a rocker it does not mean that I wont be interested... far from it!]
She should want to be cherished, protected, and yes, maybe even loved... Maybe!!!
A sub who is looking for guidance and nurture, who wants to be protected... but not a doormat.
However, until I find someone for this LTR I am happy to indulge in more casual encounters. So I am also looking for subs for more casual sessions.
Altho I am experienced, I do not mind if the sub is a newbie, as I feel I am a good teacher/trainer, and I enjoy this aspect of play very much.
I'm also looking for someone who will challenge me. A sub who will need time and effort dedicating to her. But also she will be appreciative of the time and effort I would be prepared to dedicate to her. For example, I would love the "challenge" of arranging my sub's ultimate fantasy - making her ultimate dream come true for her... Whatever that dream is... Preferably something that would take some organisisng, so I could prove my commitment. And this applies to either long term or short term partners!
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