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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   February 11, 1970
(54 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Mishawaka, Indiana, United States
Relocate?:   No
Height:   5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   BA/BS (4 years college)
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Brown
Glasses or Contacts :   Contacts


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   Once a day
Role:   Switch
Level of Experience:   Six months to a year
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Conservative
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Average

Personal
Male Endowment: Average/
Thin
Circumcised: No
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children : Happy with what I have
Occupation: Project Engineer
Religion: Catholic

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54 year old Man in Mishawaka, Indiana, United States Looking For: Men, Women or Couples (man/woman)

Profile for Selfserve
Recently I took the BDSMtest.org, Here are the results. 100% Rope bunny 93% Primal (Prey) 90% Degradee 83% Voyeur 79% Masochist 76% Girl/Boy 75% Pet 73% Exhibitionist 73% Submissive 71% Experimentalist. Communication without talking can be quite intense. This is why I like to be submissive. Knowing and understanding expectations can be quite emotional. Reading my Domme body language is intoxicating. I became aware of my fetishes during a sexless marriage. I began certain types of self-gratification including self-bondage with rope, collar and leash. Using nipple clamps made me realize the adrenaline rush made me Horney, anal plugs were easy to conceal, Traditionally I am more submissive than slave, but I think the roles cross at times the more serious the relationship becomes. Being a submissive is just a step on the way to the “ultimate” state of submission, which is being a slave. As a submissive I serve by choosing to do so. This fits my desires. However I would also be obedient which is a slave quality I am willing to respect.I am willing to be owned, but I think everyone belongs to the right person. I could be kept naked. This is a choice for you along with kneeling at your feet. I can obey. Please be patient during the initial communication stage. I was almost scammed on here already. I will be asking questions during our first set of message exchanges, that will help me understand if this is real. If the questions are avoided or not answered directly, I will assume either that the intentions aren't forthcoming or perhaps the lack of care will manifest into a unhealthy relationship. I take my body and mind seriously. Thank you for reading my profile. I hope your day goes well. [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
I became a member to find someone that I could share common goals and to let myself go into the internal feelings I have. My ideal Mistress would be caring, curvy and clean with a serious streak to keep me in my place. Someone that takes Chivalry seriously and knows how to be treated like a lady. She must be open to swing dancing, likes plays and visiting art museums and taking tours of vineyards. Structured; and can take over my mind and get what she wants from the slut she wants.


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