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Hello there. You may call me Topsider. I'm 63 and I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for almost 30 years. I am completely unattached, educated, and employed full-time. I live in Toronto, Canada. I am a Dominant man seeking a submissive female for private play, group play and attending play parties.
I am a patient and understanding Dominant. I have worked with experienced submissives, and I have helped newcomers to the lifestyle discover and explore their submissive natures.
In order for a submissive to give herself to a Dominant, she must have absolute trust, plus absolute dedication and a will to serve this one Man. But it is understood that trust is earned over time, slowly, with patience, and at a pace with which she is comfortable. It's just that our needs are quite different.
I know that many so-called Dominants say that they are experienced, but in fact all they want is a cook-and-bottle washer who sucks cock. I call them 50-shaders. I assure you, that is not me. I have been a Dominant for more than 25+ years. I am dedicated to my craft, and am sincere in my desires. I do not prey on women with low self-esteem, abusing them emotionally and physically. That is not what being a Dominant is all about; that's not what I am all about. And it's definitely not what I believe being a submissive is all about.
As with any relationship, the satisfaction of YOUR needs is JUST as important as the satisfaction of mine. It's a 2-way street. Some of those needs are the same: we want to be loved, cared for, respected, supported, cuddled, pampered, and sexually satisfied. Some needs are different. I wish to have my needs as a Dominant satisfied. I want to love, train, guide, and nurture my submissive. She will have a strong need to serve and to please, where the commission of any particular act in itself may not give her direct pleasure, but the knowledge she has pleased her Dominant in committing that act gives her tremendous (indirect) pleasure.
I will control and Dominate you, but always respect you, both as a woman and as a submissive. I may cause you pain, but I will never injure you. I may cause you humiliation, but I will never degrade you.
Again, I seek a loving, caring, respectful relationship with the Dominant/submissive dynamic.
Are you out there?
PS, if you are not willing to supply at least one picture, don't waste my time, thank you.
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My Ideal Person:
My Ideal Person You are intelligent, funny, curious, open to experimentation, attractive. You are spontaneous and fun.
You love spring, summer and autumn, sunshine, swimming, skinny-dipping, outdoor play, fires by the lake and stargazing. Being a fan of hockey (especially the Leafs) will earn you serious brownie points!
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