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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   August 13, 1964
(59 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Wichita, Kansas, United States
Relocate?:   Maybe/Yes
Height:   6 ft 2 in / 187-190 cm
Body Type:   Athletic
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   BA/BS (4 years college)
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Blue
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Prefer not to say
Level of Experience:   One to five years
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Not applicable
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Average

Personal
Facial Hair: Mustache
Body Hair: Average
Body Decorations : None
Male Endowment: Average/
Average
Circumcised: Yes
Marital Status: Single
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children : Happy with what I have
Religion: Christian

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59 year old Man in Wichita, Kansas, United States Looking For: Women, Couples (man/woman) or Couples (2 women)

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I don’t believe the be all and end all is fetish wear and toys, dungeon equiptment etc…sometimes a word, a look, a sound is enough to send a chill through your spine... Dominance displayed without respect, knowledge, and genuine connection isn't, for me, dominance at all. I believe strongly in taking the time to know someone on a personal level before trying to engage them on a D/s level. Having a sub open themselves to submitting puts them in a vulnerable position, so it is a responsibility, and trust must be carefully built and protected. Beyond that, a true relationship should have both, as play alone is not enough to sustain anything long term [if254 1]

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