I don’t believe the be all and end all is fetish wear and toys, dungeon equiptment etc…sometimes a word, a look, a sound is enough to send a chill through your spine...
Dominance displayed without respect, knowledge, and genuine connection isn't, for me, dominance at all. I believe strongly in taking the time to know someone on a personal level before trying to engage them on a D/s level. Having a sub open themselves to submitting puts them in a vulnerable position, so it is a responsibility, and trust must be carefully built and protected. Beyond that, a true relationship should have both, as play alone is not enough to sustain anything long term
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