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graver1144  
looking to poly play
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Member Since: May 6, 2018

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   June 12, 1981
(42 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Middletown, New York, United States
Relocate?:   No
Height:   5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Associate degree (2 years college)
Race:   Hispanic
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English, alittleSpanish
Hair Color:   Other Hair Color
Hair Length :   Long
Eye Color :   Black
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   Once a day
Role:   Switch
Level of Experience:   More than five years
Dress:   Gothic
Social Orientation :   Not applicable
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Passive

Personal
Male Endowment: Average/
Average
Circumcised: Yes
Have Children: No
Want Children : Maybe
Occupation: i work in NYC
Religion: Not applicable

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42 year old Man in Middletown, New York, United States Looking For: Women, Groups or Trans

Profile for graver1144
male switch, who does enjoy some part-time CD in the bedroom. seeking to have a polyamourous relationship or casual friendly encounters with other people, I'm not looking for one night stands. age and race isnt a real issue for me , and I'm very fond of bdsm as i am a switch, i can turn up the rough play or tone it down to a more sensual degree to how it fits you. normally, I prefer more to be on top in bed but sometimes i enjoy being controlled. in CD, i tend to be the submissive one. I prefer to dress Gothic, cyber-goth or club raver style, but i do dress casual. i commute to NYC frequently i have green hair on the top. so far the only weird fetish i have is i love seeing women in boxing gloves and love to engage sometimes in sexual acts with it on. granted that's not for everyone so it not a deal breaker if you choose not to partake. [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
1st and foremost i dont want to speak to anyone further than the tristate area of NY NJ PA would be a waste of energy.

before i indulge on my ideal person, i treat all women respectfully as needed outside and behind closed doors, only upon consent will i be let loose as to what we wish to have done.

the ideal person i prefer might be a switch as well or primary sub, i like a pain slut, one would enjoys choking, being spanked , slapped, teased, maybe bound as well. into ryona.

i wish for the female to want to be playmates and is free to go do her own thing, meaning she isn't restricted to just having me .you can see or do who you please. poly females a plus.


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