I have always been interested in the BDSM lifestyle. I pretty much have always know that it has been what I have needed but just didn't know where to look. I hate traditional sex, it bores me to tears. There has to be some form of pain. Control,pain and a man's dominance is what really turns me on, especially when done in an erotic setting, I need to know the man is in control, I have to know he is the one making the decisions otherwise it just doesn't work for me.
My Ideal Person: I am looking for a man that is going to cherish my gift of complete surrender. A man that knows it is just as important to see to my needs, as his own. I do not want to be used only to be left unfulfilled. Every true dominant knows that he must see to his submissive's needs as he is taken care of his own. I want a man that will know what my body needs whether it be pain or pleasure, perhaps both, a man that will know me better than I myself do. Own me and my body. Yet with this being said, I am not looking for someone to bark orders at me, I prefer, I NEED the strength to come from within rather than a false bravado that makes me wonder if he may being trying to prove something to himself as well. I also think it is best to say that A true Dominant/Master should be healthy and in shape, how else can he see to my needs and health if he is not seeing to his own. Mutual physical attraction is also very important to me. I prefer men that are clean cut and of good hygiene, Yes I said it! Sad isn't it? How many men that don't even take the time to bathe? Yuck!! I am not looking for just sex, so if you are just looking for kinky sex please look elsewhere and don't waste my time. I WANT, NEED, so much more than that. To me this is not about JUST sex, it's SOOO much more than that, something a true Dom/Master knows.
I am hoping to that I will meet someone intriguing someone I will be drawn to, someone who I will feel comfortable with, be able to explore with, perhaps push all those limits of pleasure and pain that I have longed to explore. Kisses....
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