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This is who we are everyday and that means it's not about role playing or setting a time, etc. It also doesn't mean we need to be busy with any activity, etc. at all times. At any time day or night I am same person and you can count on that for tomorrow too. It's not what we are doing that defines who we are. I am a thoughtful realist who is genuinely a true submissive with many years of real life experience in a long term relationship. I am not exploring if this what I want, I know it is.
Giving up control and choice and putting my needs in someone else's hands special to me and I am not know as passive or submissive person. It is a decision that is discussed and agreed upon. It does not mean not having needs but that I will put yours before mine and find satisfaction and joy in living that sort of life. I don't think I can adequately explain how wonderful that can be. It's not a one sided thing where only one person has their needs met but I accept that I don't decide how or when. It simplifies things when you can let go of that and focus outside yourself.
I desire that person who I can be open enough on this journey to take us to those places that no one else may know about. That time and trust open the doors and the possibilities are endless. We may not land on the same page with everything but know my intention and desire are to grow and learn and I dont expect all of your interests to be the same as mine, that's what training is for. Otherwise it would just be a mutually beneficial kinky relationship.
I am very passionate about life and living a full one and finding someone who wants what I can give.....a real submissive and not just a kinky friend.
That man who knows the truest gift of submission can come from a strong, capable, intelligent and secure person. Dominance and submission does not have anything to do with one being strong and the other weak. It takes effort, dedication and patience. Fear, challenges, inconvenience, discomfort, etc are part of real life and sometimes the only comfort and strength is focussing on being obedient and willing. I know those rewards and joys.
Having an awareness of the reality of living a M/s life gives me a some additional insight into who I am but still a blank slate and starting from the beginning with anyone
My heart and soul is that of a submissive and that hunger to serve has always there. My sexuality is deeply connected to that. That side of me was nurtured and encouraged and yes I would love to just welcome every chance to be touched again and give again but I know the joy I seek is not found in just pursuing my physical needs and can in fact make me insatiable and restless.
Brief encounters may be tempting but not truly satisfying to all the senses. I have no need to rush anything and that discovery process tales time. It's often best to just take things day by day and grow into what might be. Emails,checklists, texting, etc only turns the light the fact that we have kinks and needs in common.
I'm not rushing the process or closing doors to possibilities Be clear if it's play partners or something more you're interested in.
Details of what I enjoy, etc. are not a secret but need not be the focus of discussions. If ti's decided to get intimate that then yes of course that changes things. If you know what a true lifestyle submissive is then you know there are endless possibilities and very few limits. If I didn't enjoy things then I wouldn't be here. I am not martyr - maybe a masochist by some standards though.
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My Ideal Person:
*** NO married men or very young or inexperienced please. ******
\\\\\\****Canada is my home - I am not interest in relocation outside of Canada. ****
My ideal person - confident in knowing themselves, genuine, respectful of others, and not arrogant.
As far as finding someone to share on a deeper level I think I covered the basics above. I am easy to get to know, not offended when someones intent is true.
I am hopeful people remember that just because we have nick names and a the barrier of the internet between us that we are all people looking for something and want acceptance and not judgement. I don't have to have same beliefs to give respect - so my wish - let's be nice out here. There's enough drama and assholes in the world.
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