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photoman954  
Searching for the one that completes me as a Dom
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Member Since: September 11, 2014

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   September 7, 1954
(69 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Oxford, Massachusetts, United States
Relocate?:   No
Height:   5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   BA/BS (4 years college)
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   White
Hair Length :   Medium
Eye Color :   Blue
Glasses or Contacts :   Glasses


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   Once a day
Role:   Dominant
Level of Experience:   Whole adult life
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Liberal
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Assertive

Personal
Male Endowment: Average/
Average
Circumcised: Yes
Marital Status: Single
Have Children: Yes. We sometimes live together.
Want Children : No
Occupation: Env/Safety Manager
Religion: Agnostic

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69 year old Man in Oxford, Massachusetts, United States Looking For: Women

Profile for photoman954
Please read this first, I and looking for someone that is no more than 50 to 75 miles away from me. I Ido not want a relationship from someone from another country or halfway across the US. I will be deleting your email and blocking you. , , I am a Dominant Male that is searching for a Female Submissive with whom we may develop into a LTR with a 24/7 TPE. I am searching for that individual that understands and wants this relationship and that it should encompass both BDSM and vanilla activates with always the Kink undertone to it. I am looking for the submissive that submission is not a face she puts on when her master is around, but one were it is part of who she is. She has no choice but to server, her core personality has only one direction to go, and that is to server, any other direction would not feel right to her. She and I both will understand that for a 7/24 total power exchange to work successfully that you need to develop that connection, that emotional bond between a sub and her master. That this should be developed to the point that your only thought are that the other is taken care of. Yes I know it sounds like vanilla love, is it not a submissive desire to serve her master, to meet his needs both physically and emotionally, and is it not the Master place to look after his submissive, to protect her and to ensure she is taken care of, to train her, to encourage her to better herself. Her success or failure is a direct reflection on her Master. She should want her her Master to be older than she is. With age comes understanding of what a submissive needs, patients when helping her grow into a better submissive/slave, The wisdom to know when to discipline and when to reward her, and the maturity to discipline out of the knowledge of helping her and not through anger at her for making a mistake. And more importantly we both must believed in the need for a Dom and Sub to be successfully in their relationship their must exist that emotional trust in each other. That he will always take care of her and she will always obey even when she may not agree or like it. When you are living a 24/7 TPE you can't always be in kink mode, their has to be some normal activates but they will always have a BDSM undertone. As an example you take her to the movies and she will be instructed to wear a skirt and no panties. A vanilla date with BDSM undertones She should crave the structure and discipline that her Master will provide, she should feel safety in contacting her master and letting him know were she is at all times of the day and night when he is not their to watch over her. Her Master cares enough for her well being that he wants to know that she is safe and secure all day long when he may not be their for her. What I don't want are submissive that are from out side the area (70 miles max), I appreciate being contacted by submissive in other states or other countries, but long distant relationships for me do not work. [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
She will Beautiful (don't be put off buy this, my ideal woman has a little meat on her and not shy about her body or displaying it), intelligent, submissive and obedient. She must understand and want to server. If this is you, contact me and we can talk and see were this will lead us.


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