Submissive, strong willed and creative. I'm well aware that can make me very hard to deal with at times.
I'm a collared sub in a poly household. (I'm in many ways a switch but my dom tendacies come out towards women, submissive towards men primarily. ) I am bi-sexual, and do, on occasions, scene with others with my Master's permission. Why identify as a submissive on this site? Because I'm in a relationship where I am submissive. I have the ability to switch, I don't with my Master, it's not something that works that way with me.
For me someone either triggers my dom side or my sub side, or doesn't trigger anything there at all.
I'm english, not american, now living in the usa. I'm interested in meeting and chatting to others in the lifestyle. All though Master and I are poly we're not actively looking for another/others to join the household at this time. Right now I'm healing, emotionally, from the damage done by the last person who was in the house.
I'm not new to the lifestyle, and I'm very confident. The one who owns me is one of those rare men who never needs to shout and is my calm in the middle of the maelstrom.
I'm often online and chatting in between work as I write full time. My work ranges from the mild to the wild and I'm fortunate enough to count myself as a professional author. This isn't a brag, it's nothing more than a huge part of who I am.
I'm not overly interested in cybersex, as I write erotica and erotic romance for a living. As such cyber - well it feels boring to me. I have to have a damn good writing partner to find it even remotely interesting.
It should be noted that alt removed some of the text here, no idea why. But as such I have to add - again - that I'm owned, as stated, and we do not swing. Ever.
The contact/performing/watching, refers to BDSM only.
Poly to us means a committed live in relationship.
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