My exp in the bdsm world began with a woman in college.....who introduced me to being dominant......i later married and blended into a long vanilla marriage, but i never forgot that exp.....26.5 y ago. While separated from my ex a decade ago, I explored bdsm.....for 2 yrs I went to the munches, participated in dungeon activities....went to sex conferences....and was involved in the scene as a non-lifestyler. Presently I've been single 3.5 y....mainly dating in the vanilla world...although 20% of the women have been subs. I now am fully aware of my nature sexually.....vanilla sex soooo bores me. This fact brought me to alt. I'm a 80/20 switch....primarily dom but will submit to the right woman, although this has happened only once....conversely, I've been a dom to almost 20 women. I'm an investor of sorts....involved in real-estate.....3 ...none w me.....2 cats. I'm not into anything extreme....
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My Ideal Person:
Intelligence is always an aphrodisiac.....beauty...willingness to comply..a need....not a want....to serve....or direct if dom.
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