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Nipple Clamps Nipple clamps mean many things to different submissives. For some with highly sensitive nipples, any mechanical pressure is simply far too painful to contemplate while others cannot get enough. Before a Dominant goes digging out the Japanese clover clamps and heavy lead weights, it is best to get to know a submissive and their tolerance to nipple stimulation and pressure. Do not assume. Sensitivity is highly variable and personalized. An otherwise hot scene can be utterly ruined by a failure to understand the tolerance and desire of a submissive in this area. Work up to things gradually. Get to know her sensitivities and desires. Recognize that sensitivity can change dramatically with different states of arousal. What might be painful and unacceptable early on might be highly erotic as stimulation is increased and orgasm is approached. Take the time to learn her responses, for it is only with awareness and knowledge of this sort that a Dominant can effectively set and maintain the desired pace of a scene. Don’t be clumsy. Know your submissive and all her responses. You will be well rewarded for your efforts. ~ For The Love of a Submissive, 2013 "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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Very true indeed.. I always like to know more and more about my sub/slave before getting into act.. nice article.
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I feel it is torture for a woman to use nipple clamps and then to pull. Just use on them and have joy. Self-respect is the corner-stone of virtues.
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A good article, thank you. DB
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Great writing and great picture too! love them both !X
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Good advice. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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