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mastertjaket 68M
6 posts
3/20/2019 12:43 am
How common a problem?

So, I'm a married guy on the sly. The wife is truly vanilla, but I have this huge kinky streak in me that doesn't go away. So how does a married guy on the sly approach people to get together under circumstances that are usually more 'spur of the moment' than planned far in advance? If the wife is planning on being out of town, it is easier, but that is an uncommon occurrence. I don't want anyone to be offended, but I do want to have some kinky fun and hot times that aren't available through my wife. Returning to the States in the fall for about a year and hoping to have some great fun in the west Michigan area, hopefully with subs that can host. How do I overcome the issue of having to 'sneak araound'?

Mastertjaket


robj1956 67M
1665 posts
3/20/2019 1:43 am

All I can say is good luck to you, finding anyone that can host seems quite difficult, and working around wifes schedule makes it even more so. Everyone is looking for a Dom so there's an advantage for you, but I think you will need a place to play to have any success.


steelcager 61M
1996 posts
3/20/2019 2:59 am

Maybe the vanilla wife has an underlying need or interest in kink, but was afraid to say anything.

Bring up some subtle hints, get her a few issues of Cosmopolitan, suggest something slutty for her at Halloween and see if she is into it.


likesmatureones 55M

3/20/2019 3:50 am

My opinion..first off it is hard enough for a man to have sex on the downlow...i couldnt imagine them trying to find kink.

Why?... bdsm is about trust and knowing someone in the community..if a woman belongs to a group or club
she will vet the male through her female associates to see if the dude is cool.

Its rare for a woman to play with a complete stranger


TheBargee 68M
16315 posts
3/20/2019 6:15 am

Maybe your wife is also a member here! Perhaps married sub seeking a Dom to use her while hubby is away!

Stranger things have happened.

Best of luck



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