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likesmatureones 55M
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3/16/2019 7:43 pm
The biggest differences between men and women is touch


Now your probably thinking wtf odd theory has leo cooked up for this blog.

But touch...or more importantly being touched can be a huge differences between the genders and how we relate to one another.

Okay to start off how people treat a as opposed to a ..

The parents will continue to hug/ kiss/ be affectionate towards the through most of her life.
Girls hug each another. Touch to them is very natural way of expressing ones self.
There are no barriers between girls..girls can hug,hold hands,dance with one another...
And yeah noone is thinking negative connotations about them.

Boys on the other hand break away from such gestures from like the age of ish onward. No wants others boys to see his mom kissing/ hugging him.

So lets break it down..boys stop hugging parents...are too to want to hug girls..

And boys certainly don't hug one another..or else there still is that stigma that your..omg gay..

So for like 5 yrs of a boy's life there is lil touching. Imagine going 5-7 yrs without embracing anyone

Fast forward to the teenage years and the hormones in
So boys..and like the men the be..then view any form of affection/ embrace or hell a touch by a female as sexual in nature.
( doesn't matter if it is like a hug from a female friend,teacher,aunt,co worker...if she is hugging then the male mind instantly processes it as sexual)

Why? Cause we don't know how to process it in any other way..we didn't really grow up as huggers

This is why women can just get pleasure of cuddling and men cuddle because they think it will lead to sex.

Now you may wonder where this is leading..

Ironically the most sensual men turned to be gay..

Why? Because there isn't that barrier between men..
It really was the oddest thing i encountered when i first started being with men.

It was like opening a door into a whole new world..sorta like walking through the wardrobe and into narnia

The whole "gay stimga " you grew up with just melts away..cause one minute your cuddling on a couch..the next minute your naked in bed with another dude..
And you relax..cause it isn't a biggie..

And i wondered why was i so afraid to touch another man/ have him touch me.what's the big deal if i do like men? Force field totally drained and off line

Step back inside and men barely shake hands,we rarely even each other when we talk. No straight guy is hugging another straight dude. Force field on max..barriers up...someone better alert the captain.

Walk through the door and men aren't afraid to touch another man ( whether non sexually or overtly sexually..lol)

you can hug a man without it being a big deal.
And more importantly you learn it is cool to be touched.

Gay men know how to process touch and in turn enhance it. Something ( no offense to straight men)..but it's like that page has been discarded from their playbook.

Gay men then learn how to properly explore and excite the body

Something women wished men did for them.

Think about it...sure some will disagree and say their yr old sons hug them nightly etc..
But for the greater percentage of boys,i think right.

How many men know how to touch..more or less are comfortable being touched or showing public displays of affection. How many men are comfortable with having their bodies explored..
If your wondering this is why so many men are cock centered...cause most men have never been comfortable with being touched. They have never explored their own bodies...ergo they simply stick with the old standby
..bling..bling..you won the prize..their dicks..
They know no other moves

And people wonder why the genders are so different

likesmatureones 55M

3/16/2019 8:15 pm


likesmatureones 55M

3/16/2019 8:23 pm

Now you might disagree and say in your home country it is very natural for boys to hug,men to hug one another etc.
Im merely making referrence to my experiences growing up in america and being a boy in a no hug sorta environment.
In my childhood from like 10 onward i was no kissed/hugged etc by either parent



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