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likesmatureones 55M
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5/15/2019 5:48 pm
Its not about you..my thoughts on this subject matter


When i first heard the phrase it's not about you ( the submissive)..i honestly think it was in some bad bdsm porn.

Even worse were the ceo types that now professed they were super subs or sluts or whatever...and what they needed didn't matter..
I found that phrase funny and these subs were posers

I've always tried to match my interest with hers.. i mean subs have limits right?....i didn't want to be with a needle wielding..omg sadist!!!!!!

So i just avoided these types..

But times change and i change.. im slowly starting to realise when you box in/ limit a dominant in you are basically stifling their creativity.

If they see you as a cowboy, then you should just embrace it and be the best one you can be.

It helps unlock their kink mental box and helps push your submissive boundaries.

Im not saying you need to jump in with both feet....but society already restricts a dominant...
There are obviously things they can't do in the vanilla world..so why would you restrict them in the bdsm world.

Ofcourse safe,sane and consensual.

likesmatureones 55M

5/15/2019 7:00 pm

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likesmatureones 55M

5/16/2019 4:18 am

Basically i think alot of subs approach a dominant with alot of restrictions like...im not into crossdressing ( why cause id make one ugly woman and it does little for me.
But perhaps that is stealing her light..

Maybe she thinks id be very cute as a woman or whatever..but im basically cock blocking her.

Maybe if i got passed this fear id find it worls for me



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