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anaughtyslave 26F  
134 posts
2/20/2019 6:27 pm
What My Master's All About

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100mph_tongue 65M
1726 posts
2/20/2019 6:41 pm

Dear girl I know fuck-all about you as we have never chatted. Reading profiles is not away of getting to know someone as it is only words being used to get someone interested enough to chat and message, to learn about them and for them to learn about you. So many people jump right in without knowing about the varying aspects of this kinky life, and for most part, they think that it is all about sex. Well shock horror, it is not always about or involving sex. This life goes much much deeper than that. Now not knowing what your Master told you when you first aligned yourself to him, or the questions you asked as a newbie, and with the rate you jumped in to commit, then I am guessing that you may have made some errors in judgement. It is also possible that your Master may not have told you the full truth, or if he was a rogue with no real morals, he might not have told you any truth. These things I can only guess about. You want answers, that's fine, but girl you are going to have to give people ALL of the information if you want their advice and guidance.


lilcookiemonster 25F
9 posts
2/20/2019 7:21 pm

Your Master is in France and you're in New York?


anaughtyslave 26F  
77 posts
2/20/2019 7:21 pm

I agree with you that BDSM is not all about sex and I already knew that BDSM involves trust and communication


anaughtyslave 26F  
77 posts
2/20/2019 7:23 pm

And what I mentioned about my Master is exactly what he told me about himself when we were getting to know each other on Twitter


anaughtyslave 26F  
77 posts
2/20/2019 7:25 pm

And with these recent blogs, 100mp, I just get straight to the point of what's on my mind and what's upsetting me


anaughtyslave 26F  
77 posts
2/20/2019 7:28 pm

What do you doubt, Shard?


Sucker4Ever 70M  
5632 posts
2/20/2019 8:49 pm

My suggestion is . . . Stop listening to every asshole that knows how to fart and listen instead to your heart!
Everyone on here is a freaking expert and knows better than you what you should want and need. Fuck them! It's your life -not mine, not there's! This guy must be an asshole -Oh, excuse me, I mean, a liberty bastard - Oops! I meant to say liberty master. What the fuck is that? He's not satisfied with a beautiful woman like you - or, and your friend???
Some asshole wanna bee's on here use titles to justify what used to be called "Cheating!" Tell him to go fuck himself and get as far away as you can, as fast as you can!
Just my humble opinion!

It's only words, and words are all I have
To take your heart away


Sucker4Ever 70M  
5632 posts
2/20/2019 8:52 pm

PS. If you really want to interact with your guests . . .Use the Quote or Respond. Then we can see your reply in "Where I'm Quoted" and know you answered.

It's only words, and words are all I have
To take your heart away


Sucker4Ever 70M  
5632 posts
2/20/2019 8:57 pm

PSS. I don't mean to be disrespectful to you or your master. I just don't like to see people get hurt. And believe me, a lot of people have been hurt by fakes, or just plain liars on here!

It's only words, and words are all I have
To take your heart away


anaughtyslave 26F  
77 posts
2/20/2019 9:08 pm

Yes he is, LCM


anaughtyslave 26F  
77 posts
2/20/2019 9:11 pm

And that is correct. We came in contact with each other on Twitter


100mph_tongue 65M
1726 posts
2/21/2019 5:45 am

Girl for a first timer or newbie, on-line is just so very hard, as you are given commands and directions there needs to be lots of explanation, an reinforcement of the training being given, and then lots of practice. A lot of this can't be done successfully with newbies. With someone that has a little experience, there can be better success, because they have sampled and tried some things, but once again, on-line does not make for much other than cyber. How can you spank yourself properly, how can you be bound/restrained/and suspended if there is no actual person there with you. There are facets that work on-line and there those that don't.

Communication is another thing that has to happen, and as you have already found by using twitter those time zones can be a real pain in the arse.


anaughtyslave 26F  
77 posts
2/21/2019 6:12 am

    Quoting Sucker4Ever:
    My suggestion is . . . Stop listening to every asshole that knows how to fart and listen instead to your heart!
    Everyone on here is a freaking expert and knows better than you what you should want and need. Fuck them! It's your life -not mine, not there's! This guy must be an asshole -Oh, excuse me, I mean, a liberty bastard - Oops! I meant to say liberty master. What the fuck is that? He's not satisfied with a beautiful woman like you - or, and your friend???
    Some asshole wanna bee's on here use titles to justify what used to be called "Cheating!" Tell him to go fuck himself and get as far away as you can, as fast as you can!
    Just my humble opinion!
Thank you very much! After messaging him in the afternoon, that's all I could think about all evening! I wanted to reply to him, "are you fucking serious right now!? My friend and I aren't enough because we have a life outside of BDSM?! Jesus fucking Christ, Master!!!" But luckily I didn't


anaughtyslave 26F  
77 posts
2/21/2019 6:16 am

    Quoting Sucker4Ever:
    PS. If you really want to interact with your guests . . .Use the Quote or Respond. Then we can see your reply in "Where I'm Quoted" and know you answered.
THANKY YOU! Thank you VERY much! I appreciate that advice very much! : )


anaughtyslave 26F  
77 posts
2/21/2019 6:18 am

    Quoting Sucker4Ever:
    PSS. I don't mean to be disrespectful to you or your master. I just don't like to see people get hurt. And believe me, a lot of people have been hurt by fakes, or just plain liars on here!
Nonsense! You're not being disrespectful at all in my opinion. I've personally been feeling the exact same way after he told me that and it REALLY pissed me off. If we were in person, I'd give you a hug.


anaughtyslave 26F  
77 posts
2/21/2019 7:04 am

    Quoting 100mph_tongue:
    Girl for a first timer or newbie, on-line is just so very hard, as you are given commands and directions there needs to be lots of explanation, an reinforcement of the training being given, and then lots of practice. A lot of this can't be done successfully with newbies. With someone that has a little experience, there can be better success, because they have sampled and tried some things, but once again, on-line does not make for much other than cyber. How can you spank yourself properly, how can you be bound/restrained/and suspended if there is no actual person there with you. There are facets that work on-line and there those that don't.

    Communication is another thing that has to happen, and as you have already found by using twitter those time zones can be a real pain in the arse.
Oh, the timezone is SUCH a pain in the ass! By 3pm, it's 9pm in France and he is going to be falling asleep. Honestly, about being an online slave, he tells me to make my nipples hard which I do and then he tells me to his my ass with a ruler for punishment. And honestly, I'm not that into BDSM anyways. I'm very vanilla in real life.


anaughtyslave 26F  
77 posts
2/21/2019 7:09 am

But I totally agree with Sucker4Ever about him. I personally think I'd like to be shared with another Dom or Mistress right now since my Master mentioned that he encountered a submissive on Twitter He can have his new submissive. I could give a flying fuck. I'm just sick of the whole threesome bullshit! Fuck that! One woman isn't enough? Two women aren't enough? Fuck you, asshole! Those are my thoughts on that!


wiseone9591 72M  
208 posts
2/21/2019 12:02 pm

That should have all been worked out a head of time. If he has you and your friend as slaves then he must have said something about having more than just one. Talk it out.


MissyBossy30 32F
20 posts
2/25/2019 3:54 am

A Master is a Master and does not always need slave's opinion to make all the decisions.


anaughtyslave 26F  
77 posts
2/28/2019 8:01 pm

    Quoting wiseone9591:
    That should have all been worked out a head of time. If he has you and your friend as slaves then he must have said something about having more than just one. Talk it out.
I agree, wiseone


anaughtyslave 26F  
77 posts
2/28/2019 8:01 pm

    Quoting  :

Grazie, Shard


Subfantasy67 52M  
182 posts
3/5/2019 12:33 am

Your profile says "I like a Master who doesn't get jealous and possessive." Yet you seem to be. You are obviously upset by his actions, but ranting here isn't likely to help that unless he reads your blog.
The only truly helpful advice I can imagine is talk to your master directly. Either you both have to agree on what the boundaries are, or you have to move on. Polyamory is natural for some and anathema to others.
In the end you have to be happy with yourself and decide where you want to be.


anaughtyslave 26F  
77 posts
3/5/2019 6:50 pm

    Quoting Subfantasy67:
    Your profile says "I like a Master who doesn't get jealous and possessive." Yet you seem to be. You are obviously upset by his actions, but ranting here isn't likely to help that unless he reads your blog.
    The only truly helpful advice I can imagine is talk to your master directly. Either you both have to agree on what the boundaries are, or you have to move on. Polyamory is natural for some and anathema to others.
    In the end you have to be happy with yourself and decide where you want to be.
I do understand and agree with you. I had a discussion with him today and agreed to be more submissive to him tomorrow. But the only hard part is that I have to let him do the thinking; which isn't going to be easy for me; except it's getting me a bit out of my comfort zone


Subfantasy67 52M  
182 posts
3/5/2019 9:47 pm

    Quoting anaughtyslave:
    I do understand and agree with you. I had a discussion with him today and agreed to be more submissive to him tomorrow. But the only hard part is that I have to let him do the thinking; which isn't going to be easy for me; except it's getting me a bit out of my comfort zone
Letting him do the thinking is literally the essence of submission. If that is outside your comfort zone, you should honestly evaluate what you really want. It is entirely possible that you don't really know yet, and that is why you are doing it only online. Testing the waters with a huge safety net. Nothing wrong with that as long as you are honest with yourself.

Of course there are many that desire session based domination where they are factually in control. There are "service" Doms who cater to that, but it is rare outside of paid professionals. Nothing wrong with that either as long as it is understood for what it is.

The 'normal' kif I can use such a word) D/S is a negotiated exchange of power. Limits and boundaries are established, and the Dom has complete freedom to operate within those boundaries. That means he gets to do all if the thinking.


daddiestreat1964 54M
3 posts
3/9/2019 1:48 am

another masters help perhaps will have your confidence back. he has interest you have my interest



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